i really like this guy he is 6 yrs older im 17. We get on well but are there any things to look out for? and if we do start going out how long shall we wait like 6months+ ? tthanks
2007-03-25 02:12:01 · 19 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok everyone ignor the sex bit and answer my 1st question!!!
2007-03-25 02:17:25 · update #1
ok how do i find out if he likes me any signals?
2007-03-25 02:18:41 · update #2
AND IN THE UK THE AGE FOR SEX IS 16 !!!
2007-03-25 02:19:58 · update #3
ITS not statutory rape its consentual sex!! i would have to be under 16 for it to be rape you dumbasses! why has noone actulally answered my question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111
2007-03-25 02:26:46 · update #4
**** off and become a nun
2007-03-25 02:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Yohanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating an older guy, i'm with someone 10 years older than me, we've been friends for 2 years, but I am 21 now. I would just watch out with the age thing around your parents, as for how long to wait to have sex. I would definately wait to make sure he's in the relationship cause of you and not a piece of @ss. There is no time limit on when to have sex, but I feel that you should do it when you are ready and you know you won't regret it, don't do it to make him happy, do it for YOU, cause you will be the one to live with it the rest of your life.
2007-03-25 09:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by sin_lover85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you are too young to be dating or even thinking about someone that is 6 years older than you. If you have sex with him that is statutory rape, he could go to jail. You need to find someone your own age, that can do the things you can do. What if this guy wants to go to a bar or casino? You can not go, he can. His life is on a different level as yours. I know you are going to do what you want, but just heed my warning, this will save you much heartache later in life. Good luck in whatever you decide.
2007-03-25 09:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by mindermoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make this guy 23 years old. At this age, he should be working. Watch for independence. Watch for employment, manners. If you start going out and he pressures you into sex then maybe he is not right for you. A lot of older men are looking to "conquer" the young innocent women. I'm wondering if you have ever had sex. If not, don't rush into it. Be sure, there are alot of deadly diseases out there these days.
2007-03-25 09:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your are 18. He could be arrested for statutory rape.
Here is what I have seen. Young girls have sex, then babies, then the boy leaves them with babies and in a life of poverty.
2007-03-25 09:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer your question as you haven't said much about him? How do you know him? Have you known him long? Has he asked you out? Does he give you lots of eye contact? How close are you as in does he touch your arm sometimes when he talks to you? I would say he is old enough to make it obvious that he like you look out for body language and the things he says to you.
2007-03-25 11:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by phillippa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with u.... do it when u think ur ready,dont do something that u mite regret later on.....i mean if u really like this guy go for it..but make sure that u both feel the same way for each ohter.right now if ur not sure about him or hes not sure about u,,,just try to have fun and try to get to know each other more and u'll know wen ur ready......u can have sex at any time as long as u fell ready and sure about it.....enjoy ur life now that ur young cuz u got so many chances in life and more to go for later on....have fun...and b urself.!
2007-03-25 09:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by moreira0110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you count for the sex starts only after you r 18 !
2007-03-25 09:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by SD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really sad. you are not even dating him yet and thinking about having sex with him.
2007-03-25 09:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship before sex (play it safe in both departments)..
p.s i wouldn't be saying this 15 years ago .. been there worn the t- shirt & been hurt..
from wil.!!!
2007-03-25 09:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are 18.
2007-03-25 09:15:04 · answer #11 · answered by happysantany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋