i hav a besfriend..he's so nice..and fun to be w/... hes my besfriend in so long tym..but he tell me that he's falling inlove w/ me???? i like him so much as my bestfriend and i dont wanna loose a friend like him...pls help me??????????????? what should i do??
2007-03-25 02:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by color.me.blak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but..i cant see him broken hurted...im so confuse..he calling me now honey?? i cant tell him...
2007-03-25 02:18:16 · update #1
try to explain to him, that you want to be friend only that all.If he can't accept it , you better let him go.
2007-03-25 02:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by nearownkira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is very sweet, but you just don't feel the same way and would hate to lose him as a friend, as his friendship is precious to you. You may have to cut back on the contact for a little while, but not totally....just so he can get over this uneasy time in his life.
The same exact thing happened to my daughter and her best friend. He told her that he was in love with her and she didn't feel the same way about him. After he got over his embarrassment, they started talking again and everything is fine.....for now!
I'm going to tell you the same thing I told my daughter. Don't lead him on and be nice when you break his heart. More than likely, he will always have feelings for you, but if the feelings are not mutual, you need to be more cautious and aware of your actions because you don't want him to get the wrong idea.
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You're going to have to be strong and tell him unless you want to end up in a relationship with him. You really don't have any other alternative.
2007-03-25 09:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and yourself! As a best friend, he knows your interests, hobbies, passions and deepest thoughts. I say follow your heart. Tell him you value his friendship and are worried if you date the friendship may suffer. Otherwise go for it, because you already have a wonderful relationship as friends, which would form a good basis for your romantic relationship.
2007-03-25 09:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a a chance or just talk to him tell him you dont like him
2007-03-27 18:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kiana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lovers and best friend is so much apart.. you can live without your best friend.. but you can't live without your lover..
2007-03-25 09:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Raewon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might as well try...
2007-03-25 09:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by labyrinth_solved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋