I don't get it! There are so many people on here asking advice about their cheating spouse/mate! Don't they know, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER? Are they really that hard up that feel they have to put up with a cheating spouse?
Having kids is no excuse. I had two small children when I filed for divorce because of a cheating husband. I also was a mother/housewife and did not have a job! That was not a reason for me to stay with a cheater.
2007-03-25 02:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JESS: I guess the truth hurts, huh?
2007-03-25 02:27:16 · update #1
Maybe you should consider having the big "L" on your forehead removed?
2007-03-25 05:58:12 · update #2
Oh, and Jess, take your pity somewhere else! Your words mean nothing to me. You're a petty person. Like I said, the truth hurts and you are lashing out because you think very little of yourself.
2007-03-25 06:03:59 · update #3
ONE LAST ADD JESS- that was 15 years ago...I'm WAY over it! It's so obvious you are grabbing at anything you can to put me down because you think so low of yourself. And at least I'm A LADY! I certainly can't say that about you!
2007-03-25 06:08:48 · update #4
Because they usually have no self esteem and feel that their spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend is the best that they will ever get. Also many people cannot stomach being single again. People are really stupid and weak. I was like this over one girl when I was much younger. This has not happened to me since. I let my girlfriends know ahead of time that if they cheat they are done. No excuses, no second chances. And to my knowledge I have been cheated on since. But if I am cheated on, once I find out I would choose to not speak to that person ever again.
2007-03-25 02:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nasty Boy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, a relationship isnt ONLY about sex. And usually cheating is just that, sex.
I agree, that you shouldnt stay with someone who is cheating on you because of kids, or you have no other means of supporting yourself. But if someone loves the person, they may still want to work it out. Especially if you see the, "marriage" as through thick and thin aspect.
I dont think I would tolerate anyone cheating on myself, but sometimes people just want to believe that others will change, even if they wont.
Love is something that cannot be underestimated. And the ones that "do" break up with people for cheating, theres usually way more problems there to begin with, and cheating was just the last straw.
But for some love conqueres all, and think everyone deserves a second chance. And if someone can find it in their heart to forgive someone who hurt them so much. Is an extremely strong person, that doesnt deserve to be judged.
Now if the person cheats on them again, and they stay. Their a friggen idiot.
2007-03-25 02:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is an unfair and stupid generalization. It pisses me off so badly that people still brand you for life for a mistake that you will never repeat again. For me at least, the shame, guilt and other consequences from when I cheated will definitely keep me from ever doing it again. i know other people who say the same. some people actually learn from their mistakes, so take your scarlet letter and stick it.
SO WHY DID YOUR HUSBAND CHEAT AGAIN? HMMM... I feel so bad for you. really. you're how old and you behave like this? it was amusing at first, but then i realized your poor children might wind up like you and perpetuate your type of stupidity. I'm sorry that you live in the middle of the country in a small town. I'm sorry that your children suffer because you aren't strong enough to get over your husband cheating on you. GROW UP LADY!
2007-03-25 02:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by mbleh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. They are too lazy to move out.
2. They believe the lies.
3. The are afraid of being financially unstable.
4. They fear the unknown.
5. It may be a cultural/religious thing
2007-03-25 02:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by 我比你聪明 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel that they invested a certain amount time and feelings into a relationship that they want to work it out and try again. But can you really try again when constantly doubt the other person.
2007-03-25 02:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many people have such low self-esteem that they stay. "Any attention is better than no attention" People need love but because of the screwed up relationships they've been in , don't know what a real , secure , functional relationship looks like , so they stay in dysfunctional ones.
2007-03-25 02:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by htuch2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've got not used cheats interior the unique Sims, yet I used the "becoming older off" code on Sims 2 and it royally tousled my sport. I had to uninstall it & reinstall, then initiate an entire new sport.
2016-10-20 10:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just love their spouse/mate too much and feel they can't let go.
Some may be scared of being on their own if they leave their spouse/mate.
And some are just plain stupid!
2007-03-25 02:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people seem to think it is easier than the hassle of starting over again.
2007-03-25 02:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Becuz they are stupid . No gurl shold have to put up with cheating. The only reason why they cheat is becuz they dont get wat they want from u so they get it from another person. The only reason they will take him back is becuz they love them alot or they want to keep on gettin cheated on
2007-03-25 02:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Denise S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋