how can a person remain undisturbed by others behaviour?

Answer 1

u want to be undisturbed by others behaviour its a global problem and the solution is dont take interest in it keep ur self away...who says u to get involved

Answer 2

Remaining undisturbed is next to impossible, but what u can do for sure is to quickly recover.
What I'd ssugest is to:
- Talk to ur best/closest friend about ur feelings,
- Spend some regular time listening to ur fav Music,
- Respect others,
- Try to forgive (everybody does not know how to respect so forgive them),
- Forgiveness in Silence is a very powerful weapon,
- Remember: U're not so ignorant that u will disrespect those who r weaker then u,

& last but not the least:
- Be in touch with us. :)

Answer 3

The answer lies in the following story. A saint always sat near a banyan tree and used to give sermons. One person was fed up with his calmness and tried to give a piece of his mind. He started abusing the saint daily. The saint always smiled at him. After a few days the man got tired and stopped abusing him. He asked the saint how could you sit through all my abuses and never retaliated. The saint asked the man to give a coin. The man gave it to him. The saint did not receive it. The saint said just the way i refused to take the coin the same way i did not receive your abuses. The man understood, I hope u too.

Answer 4

It is very tough to remain undisturbed, let us first accept what is happening and why it is happening.
Let us try to smile at youself all the sorrows will vanish.
A person who can smile at his good and bad activities will never remain disturbed.
Involve youself in various activities skillfull, that would relax your concentration and capabilities.

Answer 5

That depends, of course, on how close that other person is to you.

Once you accept that the only behavior you can manage/change is your own, you'll know what to do.

You can choose your reactions, so you can determine whether or not to react to their behaviors. Sometimes the best action is no action at all, or you can just mirror back to them what they've said, indicating your understanding of their feelings.

Be aware of your responses and change them, as needed, to elicit the responses you want from the other person. Take charge of yourself, and you can take charge of the situation.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 6

u just cant.. thats human behaviour sweetie..
and im sure u dont want to stay alone in this world so to make some relations u have to get involved else u dont make friends neither u have any special one in ur life.. but yeah try n reduce it thats all u can do..
hope u understand what i said.
take care

Answer 7

it is not easy but if u want to b undisturbed than stop giving importance to that person

it is the easiest way out

Answer 8

What a good question.I have suffered from this few years back.I think you should do meditation or reed good books like of Sidney Sheldon or Nancy Drew or make 2 or 3bf's and do some sex with them. It is said that you can be relaxed by doing it.

Answer 9

Actually no one can. Somehow or another it will always be in a corner of our mind that someone is annoying or bugging us. So u need a really thick skin to ignore them. Close your ears and possibily eyes from them. Just carry on with life as u're unware of thier intentions and be happy and cheerful. Believe me in most cases they will stop hurting us once they realise that wat they are doin doesn't have any impact on us.

Answer 10

u need to make urself very strong for this.may i pls know a little more abt u? thn blv me, il take u on a completly diferent plane n ul know how to face the world boldly