ok there is this guy and me and him have became really close and i really like him and im not sure if he likes me back and i need to know should i risk our friendship and ask him out or wait untill he asks me out?
2007-03-25 01:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i asked him and he said yes so where should we go suggestions?
2007-03-25 02:13:08 · update #1
Yes you should risk your friendship because if he doesn't like you that way and you continue to have feelings for him, how do you expect to have a normal friendship with him. In your eyes he is not a normal friend. You have sexual feelings for him. It doesn't make sense to me how people want to continue a friendship with someone that they don't want as a friend. You want him to be your boyfriend. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend then just stay away from him. Being with him is only going to hurt you in the long run, unless of course he shares the same feelings that you have. Good luck
2007-03-25 02:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nasty Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto is: Life is too short to sit at home and watch the good times roll on by, Get out there and be part of the fun! Take Risks, Have Fun, and just live life fully!
2007-03-25 08:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by swimmer_chick32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him out if he hasn't hinted that he likes you. Chances are that if you like him, but he doesn't like you back, and you ask him out, you're really risking your friendship and things may never be the same between either of you again.
2007-03-25 08:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if you have gotten really close with this guy then it shouldn't be awkward to you to tell him how much he means you. Just in some conversation say how glad you are that yal are close and see how he reacts. Or you could joking ask him in some random conversation if he could ever see himself dating you. Or you could tell him the bad luck you've had with men in the past and then ask him what's wrong with you and could he ever date you or something like that.. Just feel him out on where his mindset is at in yal's closeness.. hope it works out....
2007-03-25 08:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Antwan J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you probably know the answer inside yourself...but I'll say....ask him....if the friendship is strong , it'll survive even if he is not interested in you in a BF/GF way
2007-03-25 08:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH ASK HIM OUT COME ON ITS THE NEW MELLENIUM
GET WITH IT GIRL
2007-03-25 08:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by mizz_know_it_all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes you first. be mature about it, and express your feelings. if he doesn't, then he doesn't. if he does, then go for it.
2007-03-25 08:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by kl__ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny ask one of your friends to casually bring it up and ask him. And only guys ask girls out not girls ask guys out.
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hope i've helped-gabby
2007-03-25 08:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋