suicide, but my fiance tells me I am being selfish. I say it's my life, and if I want it to end, it's my business.
Am I being selfish?
2007-03-25 01:42:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes %100
2007-03-25 01:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the other people around you that this will affect. How will you parents, friends, siblings feel. The guilt they may experience. It is a selfish and cowardly act. I know there have been times you could relax and feel good, but I also know there are times when you wish that you could just disappear. Which times do you experience more often. Anyway it goes if you are seriously thinking of suicide get some help.
2007-03-25 08:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by doubletree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is ALWAYS selfish. You only think of your own problems and not how you killing yourself will affect your loved ones. There's always the chance that tomorrow will be a brighter day.
Don't kill yourself. Seek medical help immediately. There are hotlines where you can talk to someone if you are ready to kill yourself.
2007-03-25 08:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ally O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, please think. This life has very bad times, very bad....but there is good out there too. Please, please think...
I was there when I was 15. I hurt so bad...I felt like everyone was mad at me, that I could not do anything right, and most of all...I hated looking at myself in the mirror. I felt so damn ugly!
I got through it though and SO CAN YOU!!!! Sweetie, please, I don't know you, but I can tell you one thing...I know you have a heart that is hurting so much and I want to make it better.
Please, you are about to be married....a whole new life! Children perhaps? New places to visit with the one that loves you heart and soul.
My email is posted...please talk to me...I care about you and know what you are going through...it will be okay.
You want help or you would not have asked....I know you can turn this around! Come on, people all around you love you!
You hang in there....be strong. Life can be rewarding, just open up your eyes and heart....it will pour inside you.
Go outside now, get your favorite drink - sit outside and look around. Listen. LIfe. LIfe is all around you, and you can have it.
Please don't dwell on what is hurting you, dwell on what is good, this will sponge away the bad feelings....believe you me, this is so true!!!
Love, a friend!!!
2007-03-25 08:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by SunShine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No you're not go ahead end your life, end your stupid life like a Coward whom afraid of facing the Truth or the consequences of his own actions end your life like a stupid moron who have a tiny mind just go ahead.
But i only can tell you this real men are born within the big crisis & the problems raised in poverety & never had a fool stoic & you have planty of exemplmes of this.
When a men is faced with his own deth he find the impossible less than & bariere
2007-03-25 08:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! First of all if you have a fiance'. You have touched her life. By ending yours, you will effect her deeply. You have parents. siblings. friends. family. teachers. neighbors.
It is just not your life that you are ending. You are effecting all people that you have come into contact with. If this is seriously on your mind please get professional help. You will save yourself and all of the people that you have touched since you have been alive. :) Now you have effected me also, without even knowing who I am. :)
2007-03-25 08:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Life is great! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a cowards way of ending one's life
Kylie
2007-03-29 06:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty_Kat119 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very selfish.
2007-03-25 08:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Ur fiance needs you. Ur family needs u. Dont think of suicide. U will make them suffer more. Dont do it. Think of their lives. U will affect them. Dont create trouble..
2007-03-25 08:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by aNjAsMaRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, my father killed himself and it was also selfish.
dont do it...
2007-03-29 04:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by jsf19872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋