Love with my boyfriend has been like heaven for me but he failed one test when I told him I was pregnant because he said was I cheating on him and this time I want to know whether he really loves since he is too sweet and good.
2007-03-25 01:29:00 · 11 answers · asked by NANCY T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well right now your taking advice from someone who wouldnt really know to much about it. Anyhow, its not that you should test your boyfriend, (This also comming from a guy).. dont test him, why do that? yeah you want to know that you love him, but thats not what you do, you are messing with his mind, and thats okay sometimes, but with some things, all that does is actually make you lose his trust, and by you saying that there are 2 options, he either blew it off, or he is aggrivated at you for testing his loyalty. Now out of those options, which do you think he took? If this guy wakes up and says to you something nice, it doesnt even have to be every day, its showing that he cares for you, and he wants to be with you, if he were cheating on you, you could tell, he would only answer to your "I Love You", instead of letting out his own feelings, he would only follow up to what you say. Just let it flow, you dont need to test him, dont worry about it! If its right, its right, from the words of white castle (The world seems to unfold as it should!)
2007-03-25 01:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by broken_paladin15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first, did you cheat on him in any way or could have possibly gotten pregnant by someone else in horrible circumstances? Also if he really loves you, and you're pregnant and he might not be the baby's father. If he loves you I imagine he'd stick by you, but I'd expect he may or may not want to talk about what happens. Good Luck hun :)
2007-03-25 01:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by hcolson2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man that has the guts to blam his girlfriend for cheating on him shows a complete lack of trust not in his girlfriend but in his own ability to love her ... or rather he was scared to death.
But i guess anyone would be shaken with a question like that. However....question ....... i doubt you can ask a man any sort of question to find out if he really loves you... simply let his actions speak to you.... besides... who ever said "Actions speak louder than words" must have know what they were talking about.
2007-03-25 01:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by AngelDee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he doesn't sound very supportive judging from his reaction when you said you were pregnant, but if he is as 'sweet and good' as you say then just ask him if he loves you. if he really does love you then i'm sure he'd just say yes!!!
2007-03-25 01:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Just like Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her earlier B.F how many times he did sex,and ask him whether to believe her or not.He will be the right person to guide you.
2016-03-29 03:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i did with my boyfriend was i got one of my guy friends to ask him a bunch of stuff about other girls like would you do her even with me and if he said the right thing i knew he loved me! so i hope you will try that
2007-03-25 01:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just close ur eyes and listen ur inner voice.there are still somethings in this world which we cant see with open eyes.
if ur inner say that u love him and u fell he is very tru to u.
then u should trust him.
2007-03-25 02:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by adit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his reaction could be one of "defensiveness due to surprise."
painful lesson: women should really wait til marriage.
keep asking him by presenting the question in different ways...
2007-03-25 01:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you totally do not deserve him if you feel you need to test him like that.
2007-03-25 01:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your vagina has shrunk due to hormonal changes and can no longer handle his enormous girth. If he stays he loves you.
2007-03-25 01:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋