I hate my hair. Its the worst.?

Question

My hairs sholder lenth. Frizzy. Bushey. and im sick of it.
I wish my hair was like Audrey Kitchings [google her].
im ugly and having my hair just makes things 100 times worse.
Got any suggestions of what i can do?
and not just "use straightners" please.
thankyou && goodbye.
x

Answer 1

Try frizz ease it works on my frizz & stop being so hard on yourself.

Answer 2

Don't be so hard on yourself, the world would be a crap place to live if we all looked like supermodels and actresses.
My hair has a mind of it's own, it drives me crazy. I don't go anywhere without my hats.
The back of my hair is fine, it is thick with a nice natural wavy, but the front is dry, frizzy and thiner than the back. I use an nice hot oil treatment once a week and that helps. I used wear my hair really short, it was only about 3-4 inches long all over, I could spike it up of wear it flat, which was great, but now I am growing my hair out, it is now about shoulder lenght. I really stuggled with trying to find something that worked. I saved some money up and treated myself to a nice hair day. I went to the salon had it cut, washed, oil treated - the first time i ever had it done , and styled and the stylist talked me through the whole process and at the end of the appointment she gave me a discount on the products she used so I could have the same stuff to use at home. I am no girlie girl by any means, I spend about 5 minutes doing my hair everyday.
Try some thing similar, treat yourself, see a hair professional, they know all about the newest product and will be able to recommend something that will work for you, maybe a nice new style would fun. Most women feel like a new person after a restyle. Might be just what you need...
Feel better, X

Answer 3

Is your hair all one length? Is it layered? Remember, the more layers you have, the more curls you get. Do you have product already dried into your hair for hold? If you can’t let it dry naturally, here are quick fixes to make curls look glorious in any length.

For short hair, use a 1-inch barrel curling iron all over your hair. Curl pieces of hair, making sure you are tucking in the ends so the curl does not flip out. After curling, rub some wax or pomade on both your hands. Flip your hair to the side and rub your fingers through it for loose curls. If you want tight curls, spray some firm hairspray on it until you are ready to show those curls off.

For medium to long hair, it might take a bit of work, but you too can get the waves or curls you like. For un-layered, hair, you can get curls, but it’s going to be very flat on the top of your head and very heavy and curly at the bottom. Invest in some hot rollers; getting curls only takes 10 minutes with hot rollers — twenty minutes if you are brave and want it really curly. As you wrap the pieces of hair around the roller, spray hairspray in a downward motion and lightly stroke the ends before rolling.This will help you get a better defined curl. Start rolling 1-inch sections from front to back, then do your sides and top. Leave them in 10 minutes and voila!


To get the frizz out of any curl, use a small amount of hairspray on the ends. Apply spray shine for that final finished look.

Answer 4

Hi

It depends on why its frizzy. Is it just naturally frizzy or is it because you dye it alot as this can make frizzy hair.

If its naturally frizzy all you can do to help it other than straightening is to use shampoo and conditioners espeically for frizzy hair. It will help to tame it. Before you dry it apply a frizz ease serum and dry on a cool heat as this will make the frizz less too.

I know you dont want to use straighteners but thats really all you can do to totally flatten and de frizz it. The above will help but not totally cure it.

If your hair is good condition you could always get a straightening treatment done at a salon. This is a process opposite to a perm. It lasts ages... so may be your answer.

X

Answer 5

I have the same issues with my hair. When I get my hair cut the hairdresser cuts it with a razor rather than scissors. It really keeps down the bushiness and frizyness. I use a product by L'oreal that is a straightener which is heat activated. You just rub it through your hair when it is still damp. I then blow dry in sections and straighten with a flat iron as I go. It takes a bit more time to do, but the end result is pretty nice.

Answer 6

Oh hun i am sure you aren't ugly. I am sure you are very pretty but you just are lacking confidence because you are unhappy with your hair.
have you considered going to the salon and having a good haircut? Maybe a few low lights or high lights added to ot. Would the new pob style suit you?
Hair straighteners are only a short term cure and will dry your hair up more.

Find a good salon you feel confident with or that has a great reputation and ask advice on styles that would suit you. Good luck Hun

Answer 7

your hair sounds like mine, i colour mine every 2 weeks as im naturally dark and i love it blonde, anyway mines so dry and damaged i wear it in a ponytail all the time.
do you condition your hair? that will help, also using less products with heat like hair dryer, straightners, heated rollers etc will protect it too, if you use any of these, spray some heat protector spray on first.
i am going to have mine cut in a short bob as its so damaged i cant do anything, it is very annoying.
Im sure your not ugly, you think you are as you hate your hair, i get like that too when i have a bad hair day, try experimenting with different styles, i always have hair grips at hand so i can twist my hair up and grip it

Answer 8

Use a serum for the frizz - John Freida and Biolage have good ones. That will help tame out the frizz and make it more sleek and smooth.

For the thickness, ask your stylist to recommend something - she/he might be able to trim out some of your hair underneath so it is less bushy

Answer 9

Have you tried at home straitening products. i.e chemically straiten. You can get a home kit from boots. Or you can go into a hair dressers and they can do it professionally for you. Which I suggest because you can't go wrong then, and ask them to thin your hair out when they cut it. Or altrnaatively if you don't like the hair dressers, you can buy hair thining scissors from a better ware cattalogue. I think they sell them amoungst other places, and do it your self.

Answer 10

Are you female?
If so this is what you are SUPPOSED to do.
ALL the females in my life (and I'm now 61yrs) have wanted the opposite type of hair - it's NORMAL.
Here in Australia they had a successful advertisment campaign based on the fact that women ALWAYS want different hair.
REMEMBER - what ever you change your hair to, you WILL want to change it again.
I have tried so many hair colours and never found one I want to keep to - NEVER
SOLUTION - There is NOT one. So concentrate on some-thing else - like keeping that thing under your hair - your BRAIN well educated and working. SORRY

Answer 11

Several approaches to take. 1. learn to love it because hair today gone tomorrow. 2. If it really sucks go alternate and make it look way out there. people will think u r unique or interesting. 3. shave it off and look like a bad ***. 4. find a cool hat!