My lovelife is a failure. Should I join this cult that told me they will give me a wife?

Question

My lovelife is a failure. I am 33 years old and I'm a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend and every single woman on this planet refuses to go out on a date with me. I have never been on a single date in my life. I was thinking about suicide but because I am a Christian, I can't do it. I tried meeting women in church but everyone is either in a relationship, or just not in the market, but as soon as they get in the market, some guy scoops her up. So I had given up on love.
So I traveled to Asia so I could find any girl that needs a green card and I met people from The Church of God World Mission Society. It's a cult that says God's mother is a Korean woman and the Koreans are the real Israelites. They were so loving, they cooked dinner for me every night and we talked about life and my problems. They also said if I join their church, they promised to get me a wife since in the church, women outnumber men 70%-30%. This is a cult but I'm despirate. What should I do?

Answer 1

Te lo escribo en español, pero no se si me entenderas, eso de culto y que se yo no me gusta como suena, te pueden prometer las mil un cosas pero Dios sabe lo que hace si no has tenido suerte en el amor es por que a lo mejor no es el lugar, ni el sitio adecuado para eso, lo primero que dbes hacer es sacarte eso de la cabeza de que nadie te quiere, de que nadie quiere salir contigo, al tu cambiar eso, todas querran salir contigo... entiendo que estes deseperado pero la cosa no es para tanto.. hay gente todavia que creemos es de que cada quien tiene su pareja, asi que no te preocupes tanto trata de disfrutar mas la vida apenas tienes 33 años y eso no es nada ahora es que te falta por vivir y tener muy lindas experiencias... asi que animo y no te metas en esas cosas extrañas de cultos que a la larga no te llevan a nada bueno, cuidate... bye n____n

Answer 2

You don't join a cult.

And in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. never having gone on a date, I can see why you would be upset... But to join something like a cult, to think about suicide... Life about more then a 'love-life'. So much more.

If you are so depressed, take an anti-depressant! Aside from no 'love-life' do you really have so much to depressed about? You need not give in so easily. You say you've tried church, what about online dating sites? They have become very popular over the last year alone. Church isn't the only place to look. And Asia sure as heck isn't either!

You mustn't join a cult. And if you are anything at all, you won't give up.

Answer 3

I think you are really overdoing the self pity and exaggeration! How silly to go all the way to the other side of the world just to get a woman, as if there are no women where you live! And if you are really the Christian you say you are you have no business being in that cult no matter what their male-female ratios are! I think you have been trying too hard to get hooked up and maybe you need to revise your approach and technique when asking girls out. Don't get a wife just because you no longer relish being a virgin, love is an important factor in any relationship. You can't just marry a stranger coz she needs a green card! Come on!

Answer 4

I think that joining a cult is against your religion as well as suicide. Can you find a wife over there who's not in the cult? What you really need is some counseling, because you're obviously depressed. If you can afford to go to across the world I'm sure you could find money for a counselor who can give you some good advice and help you work on your social skills. Somewhere there is a girl for you. Don't give up and don't do anything rash.

Answer 5

My friend joining a cult will result in a lost relationship with Christ because cults are not of God. You say that your a Christian, well if you wait on God he has a mate for you but you have to learn to lean on him and trust in his will. God may have things for you to do that will give you greater joys then you could ever imagine. Please wait on the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. I was divorced for many years and God one day sent me my heart and we have been married 6 years. We have one daughter together and she is a gift of God to me. I am a Minister and have learned that God's timing is not always ours. She even accepted my son from my first marriage as her own. That is a special woman and I will love her as I do God.

Answer 6

Don't join the CULT!!! Cults never give without asking for something. They're bribing you with the talks and food. Don't turn to the brown grass patch of the hill!! You'll find a woman sooner or later just don't be so tight about being a 33 year old virgin... I knew this person who said to me "My dad didn't meet my mom until he was like thirty-something and he didn't even meet her himself. My aunty worked with my mom and she introduced my dad to my mom." So there you go evryone's happy... AND That person wasn't even conceived until their dad was 42. I'll tell you one thing you SHOULD be worried about... being a 40 - ~ yr old virgin. Some advice: Don't go so desperate that you date older women or become absolutely anti-social OR (i hate to think it) bat for the other side. Hope it helps

Answer 7

Cults are dangerous because they prey on people and remove their freedom of choice. Instead of letting others think for you, try spending some of your energy in improving yourself and gaining self-confidence. Do you really want a wife that someone else picks for you? Straighten up and and take control of yourself and you'll be glad that you didn't give in. Ask yourself if this cult is in line with your religious/spiritual beliefs. Ask yourself what these people want from you in return -- money?

Answer 8

Don't give in so easy. Hold out for a cult that will offer at least 3 wives. And they better be beautiful. And virgins.

Answer 9

r they asking u for donation? Take care!