ahh, it was like magic, when we first met i knew i loved him. now we're going out, and i still havent told my parents, in fear of their dissaproval because of the age difference. hes 15, and im 13. im in 8th, hes in 9th. what should i do??
2007-03-25 01:01:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey 13....want to be pregnant by 14? That's why your parents are worried. You are a bit too young to date. And if you can't tell your own parents about this boy, then something is wrong with the relationship and you know it. Confide in your mom first. Dad will just go after him with a meat axe. Give your mother some credit for having been a 13 year old girl herself once. Talk to her, tell her you don't want to go behind her back and you need her advice and help. Just try at least,
Your parents love you. They have devoted a lifetime to protecting and feeding and caring for you. Doesn't that deserve a little trust? Talk to mom.
2007-03-25 01:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference isn't that big of a deal. Will your parents let you have a boyfriend at all? You might just want to sit down with them very calmly and tell them. But don't tell them that you love him. Many people feel that if you think you love someone in eighth grade, the relationship has gone too far. Invite him over for dinner sometime; show your parents that you're not ashamed to bring him home and that he's a nice boy.
2007-03-25 08:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two years should not make a diffrence that much. ur parent's should understand that u can't help who u have feelings for....
sit them down and tell them that u have some news that they need to know and that it's not bad. so they don't worry and say look mom and dad i have a crush on a boy but he is 2 years older than me. i really like him can invite him over for dinner one night and let them get a chance to meet him and they may not care so much. you'll never know till u say something u have to take a chance. what do u have to loose? i mean really it can't be all that bad and if it is im me back and tell me and maybe i can give you some diffrent advice instead of this one, but this should work... good luck sign baby gurl....
2007-03-25 08:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by nellys_gurl_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not the age to get any approval from ur parents marriage is a long story first is ur studies dont let ur parents fall in any problem due to u...parents do everything for their child in turn child like to make them feel embarassing by such act...enjoy ur childhood than your teen age later on think about any relationship u will get bored with the same guy the whole life...first live life than after u r 21 or 22 ask ur parents to find u a right candidate for marriage after marriage fall in love this way u will not get bored with the person whom u have married because ur love will be very fresh....remember one thing this time tested solution better forget that guy and ask that guy even to forget u and better concentrate in ur studies for sucessful life ahead
2007-03-25 08:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's not like you all are getting ready to elope. Just tell your parents. But if they are the type that are hard to talk to and may end up treathening your life (:)), then talk to a friend. I don't think there should be a problem seeing your ages. You all are just friends right? No hanky panky I hope.
2007-03-25 08:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by p1ay_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the age difference is not that much it's an OK one. if your dad is older thatn your mom then i'lll tel them but if your dad is younger. no chance
2007-03-25 08:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. At least he doesn't drive yet.
2007-03-25 08:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋