Help me solve my relationship with my distance girlfriend?

Question

I have been in a relationship with a girl who works in the same department but different branch. Living apart made it difficult for us to see each other so we would normally savour any chances to meet. We were quite happy with that arrangement up until last week when we attended the same course organised by our department. Initially, everything was okay, but on the third day, she was kind of distancing herself from me. Any attempt I made to be together was declined by her. And things didn't get better and it seems like getting worse by the day. As far as I can recall, I didn't do anything wrong, like flirting with other girls, etc. Please advise me what I should do to make my relationship with her okay as before.

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Answer 1

As cold as it may sound, You can't guarantee that the one you Love will continue, especially if there is no time for each other, or distance. If she will go somewhere with you to seriously talk about it, you to must be willing to accept release if that truly is what is meant to be. Tin marbles are alot better then Plastic ones.........!! Good Luck !!

Answer 2

qwerty, I am sorry to say, I think that your girlfriend was happier with your old routine. You said that when the two of you lived apart, you savored your time together, and that the two of you were quite happy in that arrangement. I think you need to re-examine your relationship with your girl. She should be reacting thrilled, that you are now in the same area, and not acting standoffish. Your girlfriend might not have thought the relationship through, to this current situation, to be living and working in the same location. you need to speak to her, and find out if she wants the relationship to continue in the new set of circumstances. If she is acting distant, I am sorry to say, I think she might have reservations concerning your relationship. I do not question you being at fault, but your girlfriend might prefer more freedom, and space than you. Some people like more alone time, away from their bf/gf, and she might be that type of individual. You need to settle this, so that you both can be Happy. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Maybe one of the following is going on, like a couple others have said, it was a work environment, maybe she wanted to keep things on a professional level, maybe a bad day or busy one. Or worse case, she found someone closer to her who makes her happy and she doesn't know how to tell you, yes it sucks but it could happen. I used to travel with my job as a trainer and learned the hard way long distance relationships never work out, but I hope I'm wrong and it was just the first couple things I said. Good Luck Buddy

Answer 4

hi, i really wanna help you.may be there's some misunderstandings.or may be u should give her some space.i don't know u. but i know u really love her.and just try your best to let her know that.love does not only love.it is a feeling,and feeling so complex.maybe u can get some help from the elders,they know love better than us.
be happy,don't give her so much pressure.

Answer 5

You don't have to assume you've done anything wrong, it sounds that you wouldn't because you sincerely care for her. You're just going to have to ask her direct about your relationshiop with her and hope that she gives you an honest answer. Good luck. Hope things work out for you.

Answer 6

It may be b`cos of that..she might be facing concentration problem, when u r just behind her.
Or it may be due to fear from other colleagues..that they make link between u both.which she may not like to blame un-necessarily.

Good Luck..

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Answer 7

she might have just been busy don't worry give her a little space and then talk to her she could have just had a bad day.