Me and my boyfriend are both 21 and very outgoing people.We've been together for 6 months now and things have been great so far.Every saturday I have a girls night out with 3 of my closest friends.Because I'm in a relationship and don't want to give other guys the wrong idea when I go clubbing,I take my very gay but very good looking male best friend with me and dance with him all night.Last Friday my boyfriends friend took him clubbing and found me dancing with my friend whom he's never met.He though I was cheating on me, yelled "what the hell is going on here" and pushed the guy off me.Wasn't he overreacting?I know it looked bad but he didn't even give me a chance to explain.What would you have done?
2007-03-25 00:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would have even did the same before listening to anything....give some time...time heals all ur wounds...dont get angry on him handle very tactfully he loves u
2007-03-25 00:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is a situation that you can't prevent. We guys get a little nutty if you're dancing with another man on girls night out. However, if you explain to him that the other guy is gay, as well as your buffer from the other drunk horny slobs in there, he may calm down and even appreciate the idea. Just explain the whole situation and give him some time to cool and all should be well. Also, you say they've never met. Try to change that... On better terms of course!
~Chris
2007-03-25 08:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sori im a chic - that dude is such a good mate of your b.f he is a lucky man. It sounds like you were more than "just" dancing to provoke such a reaction - Im sure the friend was watching you for a little while b4 he stepped in... Im not at all interested in hurting you but what you did seems a bit odd - maybe you like dancing but havent you got your girlfriends to dance with - sounds to me like you like to go out with the gay friend moreso than your g.friends...none of my business but YEAH HE IS A GOOD BLOKE - If I were a guy Im sure Id have done the same thing - you are lucky your guy trusts you so much, dont abuse it
2007-03-25 07:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know what you were doing before finding out about this way. If your boyfriend already new ahead of time and he told his friends this scene would not have happened. you have to think ahead more. Now you have some repair work ahead of you. You better get the gay guy to talk to your boyfriend with you there to explain things. I would be suspicious about your gay friends motives. Is he thoroughly gay or bi?
2007-03-25 09:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going out with this guy, you should have explained it earlier. You see, in relationships, some things need to be explained otherwise there is huge chance of misunderstanding. Specially with things like this.
2007-03-25 08:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest i done the same thing, but after i cool down, i would have talk to you about it, an if i found i was in the wrong i,, be biggnest to say i was wrong an sorry for my action
2007-03-25 08:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is jelous and has no self control.
just a guess but he may have problems picking up girls besides yourself?
conclusion he is a boy, not a man.
2007-03-25 07:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trasnparency is the best policy
2007-03-25 08:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have let him know about the guy friend in advance. because you didn't it looks like deceit.
2007-03-25 08:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋