I'm trapped,what should I do?

Question

I just moved to this school campus, Job Corps, and I’m getting this eerie feeling that my dating life, **** my life in general, is about to take a turn for the worse. There are not that many women here; it’s a male dominated campus. I’m an 18 year old male virgin that was happy about living home, thinking there would be a lot of women here, but now I just feel lost and trapped. I can only dream about dating one of the few women here because if I do, word will get around and everybody at this campus will know about my dark secret. I’m feeling suicidal and depress; them thoughts are slowly creeping back in to my life! What should I do to make myself feel better?

Answer 1

Find the rare woman, date her and have fun with her. Why should it be a dark secret? Male around you will only envy and admire you.

If you cannot, then either live wity your anxieties or move on.

All the best!/

Answer 2

In my opinion, being a virgin, male or female , is NOT a "dark secret". It is something to be proud of ! Too bad there aren't MORE virgins in the world today!! First, if you are unhappy at your school, perhaps you should consider a tranfer...second, don't worry so much about being a virgin. It's a GOOD thing. When the time is right, it will change and you'll wonder why you worried so much! Just enjoy LIFE and YOUTH...it doesn't last forever!