2007-03-25 00:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by alt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur life has to be in order first of all. a good running car, a nice place to live, a job, money saved, marriage, trust love fun, communication and a good reationship. make sure that ur stable and money saved. if this is what u have then maybe it is time. if u both want kids. u'll know when it's time in ur heart and ur mind. it has to come to you. u can't just wake up and say i'm going to have kids today. talk about it discuss it first for a month or so and if u both still think it's the way it's supposed to be then go for it. good luck sign baby gurl.... make sure that u alway's have a back up plan too.it's always good to have trust me....
2007-03-25 00:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by nellys_gurl_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have enough money to raise a child or more, that you are patient and have experiences with children. When you learn what to do in critical situations and how to behave, when you are ready for waking up in the middle of a night just to take care of your child. When you know what to do when the child is 3-5 in order to make his/hers life easier at school(learning techniques or something). When you know how to make a child to have an interest in school and keep it for many years... to put it short - to make sure that you'll help your child to grow and become successful and self-dependent
2007-03-25 00:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to be busy, lay down your life for a child, give up some old friends and hobbies, less dates with your spouse, crying babies, changing diapers. When you think all of this you can handle surely, then your ready! Or also your spouse has to be ready too.
2007-03-25 00:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you dont say anything about yourself or your relationship etc, or is this a general question ?. One thing springs to mind though, if you are asking this question then there is a part of you that is looking for some sort of descision, and this is one that you should be so sure about in your own mind that if every answer you got said no no no dont do it you would still go ahead.
2007-03-25 00:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by JULIE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a steady job with a steady income
when you and your wife are commited cos once having a child there's no more late night partying and stuff
learn from other parents on how they handle their kids
when you actually have something planned for your kids when they grow XD
2007-03-25 00:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by wai2kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ever ready. Make sure you are married and can provide for one before trying.
2007-03-25 00:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by 38C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturity
Emotionally ready
Financially
Your partner is also ready
Commitment
2007-03-25 00:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll know when the strip says "pregnant".
2007-03-25 00:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your bored of eachother, adding a baby is fun, and never boring
2007-03-25 00:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you winds up pregnant.
Prior to that it is all speculation.
2007-03-25 00:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋