Tested her to see if she's girlfriend material?
2007-03-25 00:10:29 · 13 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it's the first step
2007-03-25 00:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dwill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I don't really consider anyone my girlfriend until we've had sex though.
My ex gf did nothing but test me. I hated it. Basically every single time we got together there was some sort of judging going on. I just wanted to tell her to relax and stop and smell the flowers.
The craziest thing happened once. She was living with her parents. I got a call from her dad. I was kind of surprised. Anyway, he handed the phone to her, and I just mentioned that it was surprising that her dad called me. She didn't believe me. She went on and on about it for a few minutes and ended up pissed off at me, like somehow I made up this lie about her dad calling me. Because she continually tested me, I was wondering if maybe this was another one - to see how I'd handle this strange little situation. To this day I still don't know.
Anyway, I guess I failed one or more of the tests because here I am not with her anymore. Nice girl other than her lack of trust. I guess it's the world's turn now to test her on that.
2007-03-25 00:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I test women all the time and i am sure women do the same. I don't wait for dates. If I meet you i will know a lo about you in less than an hour, so much you will begin to wonder where I learned it all and the answer is you. Feel free to do the same. It may cost you a little sex but it will save you a lot of bruised emotions.
2007-03-25 00:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if a man likes you there's no testing he wants to go out with you point blank there's no middle ground with men they unfortunately see things in black and white.............But one thing they'll test you while your both going out...test to see if your easy or respectable or the girl next door.
Turn the tables you test him.....step back and let him do all the work and let him impress you.
2007-03-25 00:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I date a girl for awhile and see if she "puts out". If she does, then serious relationship.
2007-03-25 06:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday of life is full of tests and examinations that is why life is changing. certainly, girls are also not out of this paradigm. I dated them, tested them and discovered them. So many girls have come in my life but lastly i chosen only one from all of them.
2007-03-25 00:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Implicitly tested her? Of course. I learned over time to screen girls before getting too close and if there's something wrong, give them a quick boot.
Explicitly tested her? Thought about it. I dealt with enough girls that have drug or alcohol problems, and/or are emotional wrecks, that I think this is a great idea.
I'm sure women would to see men go through a battery of tests for prescreening before they waste their time on some loser too.
2007-03-25 00:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Babyface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But then I get screwed over a lot. I just like to take people at their word till they prove otherwise.
2007-03-25 00:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by redman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand the question.
On the date, I am deciding...After two or three dates, if it isn't going to work, because she;s a liar, low self esteem, can't old a conversation, thinks I'm boring, she's paranoid, hung up on her ex, thinks the military is a bunch of mindless killers, whatever, I don't ask her out any more.
2007-03-25 00:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually after the third date you can tell if she is a bunny boiler or not
2007-03-25 00:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that Fir3ry_f…is a certified terrorist...
So, can you cook?
2007-03-25 00:19:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋