guys always going after me, but why am i still single?
2007-03-25 00:08:57 · 22 answers · asked by maya820 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was 19, I remember I was lonely and wished I had a boyfriend. It's a natural feeling of course. But, I'll tell you sweetie, you're young and you have lots of time. Use this time now to improve yourself, stay a virgin (NUMBER ONE) until you meet the right man. I can't stress that enough. Don't let the pressure of society make you feel you need a boy to feel good about yourself. Study, read, travel, be independent, love life, find a passion, do something nice for somebody, smile and be happy that you have your whole life ahead of you. Some one nice who will respect you and love you when you're ready will come at the right time. Be patient sweetie.
2007-03-25 00:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys are going after you and none wishes a relationship. That means , you are being perceived in the wrong light and are sending out the wrong vibes.
You may be trying too hard and expecting too much , feeling too much too soon.
Thank you for giving your age. 19 for women is a dividing age. Some marry after HS some go on to collage or work. Some like you feel they should be in a relationship.
My suggestion is , we need to work on your perception.
While maintaining a well groomed look. Don't reveal too much. Laugh a lot and enjoy yourself.
Put yourself in situations to meet new people. Travel with a girl friend,(not as pretty as you).
Most of all . be careful what you wish for, not all relationships are good . Most importantly . live.
2007-03-25 00:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 17 and i dont have on either considering the fact that i live in this totally traditional type of a family, i dont think i'd be comfortable either if i had to keep the whole thing a secret. But the thing is i am sooooooo ambitious that i think evrything else can wait. sometimes having no bf feels weird and all that but i guess it doent fit my life schedule at age 17. maybe thats ur reason too? and u mite have not the super cool guy yet.
2007-03-25 00:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're meant to be nice and fresh for your first boyfriend instead of some girl whose been around the block a few times.
I was 19 before I started seeing someone.
Late bloomers are the best. We rule. We end up with the best partners.
2007-03-25 00:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 23 and im in the same situation...you are not alone. There are many people who havn't got a boyfriend/girlfriend.
Do you turn guys down?
Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you will always be a happier person......
2007-03-25 00:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right guy yet. I only fell in love at the age of 20. Why rush into things? You're still young and enjoy your freedom!
2007-03-25 01:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer lies in you. Did you ever tried to be a girlfriend to a boy. Some girls just stay till a boy invites them for a relationship. Why havent you invited a boy for a relationship so far?
2007-03-25 00:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ethen Perera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You don't need a man to have fun. I was 22 when I had my first boyfriend, and yea, it sucked having to wait that long, but believe me, guys will come around.
2007-03-25 00:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by silentmisfitpro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you shy?if you see a guy that you like try to approach him!take risks...you don' t have anything to lose,do you?:)
Be optimist and smile,it always help...
Try to see the good part of being single:No one is bothering you!:P
take care and im sure you will find someone!
2007-03-25 00:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by sauvage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same sad story here maya . Im 31 andstill never had a girlfirned.Im very handsome but cud never figure out why females never appraoched me. Can we lonely souls meet then and have fun?
2007-03-25 00:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋