2007-03-22 01:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by Beatn Down Yo Block 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Hi there,
Just because someone has one or more stds including hiv that does not mean that they can no longer have an exciting and full sex life. It does mean that you need to be more aware and take more precautions. Condoms are the first place to start if they are not part of your sexual practices. Beyond that the sky's the limit. Healthy sexuality requires honest, open lines of communication between all parties. Part of that is also being honest with yourself and thinking about what you like and what you don't like and not feeling embarassed by it. There is nothing more frustrating wahen asking people what they like when the only answer they get back is "I dunno?" There are so many things you can do that do not involve intercourse but most people assume that that's all there is. You need to ask your partners what they like, what they don't like; is there anything that they would like to try in the right company. Some people may feel comfortable doing things with some people and not others but unless you ask, you will never know unless directly told. To me, sex should be playful, define it accordingly. Some things people may want to explore are:
*food (strawberries and chocolate dip or just the chocolate dip!; passing icecream back and forth while kissing -ok, assuming that if a partner has syphillius it has been taken care of)
*sex toys and that does not mean only dildos; there are many things on the market that can be used
*role play/exploring fetishes
*SM/BD and no that does not mean only the hard core leather scene - lightly tying a person's hands say over their head or lightly blindfolding them and then tickling them with a feather is a form of SM/BD! And if tying is not your thing feathers are still fun on their own.
I mean, the list is endless. As long as all partners are consenting adults...explore, play and have fun!
Cheers.
2007-03-22 08:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More people have or have had an STD sometime in their lives than do not. Id hardly suggest "alternatives" are in order. I would suggest educating yourself with the various risks involved with sex. If you arm yourself with the proper knowledge, you can make your own decisions of how to manage your sexual behavior. Don't rely on health care workers or STD awareness to provide you with this information though. They usually generalize and blanket the real epidemiological nature of STDs with misconceptions.
2007-03-22 09:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by bob b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is use protection. Make sure you put it on right and stuff. Also let the person know that you have and STD
2007-03-22 09:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by AnDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are multiple dating sites for people w/ stds.
2007-03-22 14:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by VENTURACHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
condoms or abstinence!
2007-03-25 18:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Honeyluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋