My friend i have been messin with has messed with girls who have STD's what should i do?

Question

This guy i mess with is what you can call a man whore!! he messes with a lot of girls. but i didnt know until recently!! 4 girls he has messed with has STDs and i really dont know wat to do!!! HELP ME

Answer 1

Hi there,

First of all relax; freaking out won't help anything. Now, you are assuming that it was he who gave the women the stds; it is possible that they picked them up from someone else. Regardless, if you've been messing with him you will want to see your doctor about being tested for all stds. Anyone who chooses to lead an active sex life and is not in a monogamous relationship should be tested once a year for all stds; every six months if the sexual activities are more risky in nature. In the future, use a fresh latex condom each and every time you are engaged in vaginal/anal intercourse. Lastly, if you have issues with his sexual behaviour (you are calling him a man whore) then perhaps you might want to find a different partner to mess around with.

Cheers.

Answer 2

Stop messing with him. Go see a doctor and say you may have been exposed to STD's, and you would like a blood test and a pap smear, and whatever else the doctor says you need. In the future, use condoms whenever you have sex, unless you're in a committed relationship with someone and both of you have been tested for all STDs.