2007-03-17 23:00:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a cry baby and be a man and have lots of meaningless sex..it will make u feel better.
2007-03-23 01:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm assuming you mean it was a 7 year relationship, for you surely wouldn't still be hurting if the break up was 7 years ago! On that premise, all I can say is that if you perceive she's easily living without you, she probably is. Now it's your turn. However difficult it may be, move forward, don't look back. Slowly, but deliberately get involved in things that simply won't allow you to dwell on her. Get out, spend time with your friends, & for heaven's sake, don't even talk about her. Just take "baby steps" & before you know it, you can make your life so full that that old experience has lost it's pain, & eventually even its memory. TIME, if used well, can do things you'd never dream possible, now. I'm sure all this seems just like a bunch of words, but MOVE ON & you'll see.
2007-03-18 14:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey brother. Just move on with your life man. Couple of months back I was in the same situation as you are.
Just dont think abt that anymore. But I know it hits your mind regularly, though how ever you tried to forget it. Just go out with your friends, watch movies(not romantic once), spend time at your religious place. Just minimize the time you spend alone.
She has totally removed you out of her head. Girls are like that. Even for me it is still unclear what was the reason behind the break-up. I know it must be same for you as well. But in her mind it has being strongly rooted. There is no point in trying to remove it. Then it'll get worse. May be after few months she will realize the mistake she did, by that time its too late. Generally most girls are irrational beings (with all the due respect to the rational girls in the forum).
Now go around and meet new people and girls. You will get what you truely deserve.
If you still cant forget her, then wait for couple of months. I mean abt 4-5 months. Then try again, by then if she has realized that she had made a mistake and if she is still alone then you may have a slight chance. But personally, I dont recommend that. For me I have totally given hopes about her, even if she comes I will not fall in to the same trap. So find some one else.
ALL THE BEST TO YOU!!!!
2007-03-17 23:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by banju 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is really hard but you have to accept it. I have been there as most people have at least once!. Try and get out there and fill your time - you may not enjoy yourself initially but without realising it, you will start to have fun again. She has managed to get over it quickly because she finished with you and had probably been coming to that decision for a while. For you, it was a shock so you have a bit of catching up to do in terms of acceptance. Look after yourself. x
2007-03-17 23:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bexs 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It hurts so much and can empathise but it does get easier. I was told it takes half the time of the relationship to truly get over it , this was kind of true. Might leave you with a limp but it only plays up on rainy days. Learn what you can and do not shut yourself down from new relationships when you are ready. The only way to feel true love is by making ourselves vulnerable to true hurt.
2007-03-18 02:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by sunshinesmainlyonme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might be hard to do but you have to face things as they are, not what you want them to be. Reality is what it is. Face every day seeing things as they are - as they really are. Pray for the ability to accepty the things you can't change. That and the right attitude will really help you deal with the changes. You can stay stuck in that rut forever, or you can think about makng some good changes in your life that having that person would have prevented you from achieving. Dont fear life. Grab it by the balls and do some amazong things with it. I expect to hear about some accomplisments from you. Remember that your ability to love deeply and to have compassion and empathy is jut one of your gifts from God that might help you in a future career in your life and lead you to another partner that is REALLY the one for you. Good luck and God's blessing to you. - Paul
2007-03-17 23:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 07:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry things didn't work out better. Are you going to be a martyr to this for the rest of your life though? What a waste! If you can't get over her - maybe counselling would help?
Dating again would cheer you up too if you feel up to it. The right woman for you is out there waiting for you to find her.
Be brave!!
2007-03-17 23:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats because you were on the horrible side of the breakup..the one who was broke up with. The break upee...if you will.. if the roles were reveresed...you would be moving on quicker than you can think. Make sure you give yourself lots of time. You are going to need it.
2007-03-17 23:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a case of, that is what I want and if I cant have it nothing else will do, very spoilt, face up to , seven years is too long, even you should have got the message by now!
2007-03-21 20:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That might be the reason for the break up in the first place, isn't it? Your feelings for him has always been deeper than his for you. Mopping over it would only lead to more depression & hindrance for meeting some one more deserving.
2007-03-24 01:07:45 · answer #11 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋