i had 3 long relationships, and every one of those guys was jealous with no reason, i have never cheated, and all of them are obsessed with sex, not in a normal way, they're all too kinky and ask for more than any girl would do.. HEEELP!! new bf is starting to act that way
2007-03-17 21:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by WhatAnIdiotIam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Got to stop picking up guys from the hospital. You don't know what their in there for. You might end up his next GF's jacket!
2007-03-17 21:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all 3 turns out this way. then it muz be something with u.
it could be the way u've been playin hard to get turns them on so much that they go crazy and fantasizing abt kinky sex with you.
If u know that ur new bf is those type that wud get jealous easily then u shudnt have started with him. however, it wud be best if u had a good talk with him about how far u are willing to go for him.
as for jealousy, it may be due to the guy feeling insecure. constand reassuring shud do the job.
good luck
2007-03-18 04:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by summ3rlicious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it was one or two man whom are like that then most probably its their mistake. But Since it not only a few, it 4 now, most probably the fault lies with the other party: You.
Well, speakin from a man side of view, man are normally obsessed with sex when influenced by their pals and friends. This is not a abnormal situation as pals can be VERY influencial and when you go out with him for a date, wearing too seducive clothes for them, we can become pretty much obsessed with sex again.
As for jealousy, I have already explained above. It could be their pals whom are influencing them too much. Men, tend to like to show off sometimes by boasting about their sex experience with their friends. And because of that, they may get jealous and try to experience it themselves. And eventually, hooked on it if unstopped.
Well, although you have never cheated them, how sure are you that they are not cheating on you? They could be having sex on the other side and when they are with you, they might be craving for sex too and when u dont, they tend to get jealous.
Seriously speaking, perhaps try changing your looks might help alot. This will change their impression of you. For example, when a man sees a girl wearing clothes with pretty little material: showing off their bare body, the chances of the man craving for sex is much higher. But is the see a girl in plain clothes: hardly any exposed area, the chances of man wanting for sex is lower.
2007-03-18 05:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by tezy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, do yourself a HUGE favor--break it off-at least for awhile--with this guy. And, more importantly, take a break from dating, and please get into counseling, to find out what it is or why it is that you are first attracted to these guys. I'm serious on this. It's a pattern that you need the proper help to break. There is the right guy for you out there somewhere-probably close by-that you will come across at the right time. That won't be like these guys. He will be a whole lot better for you. Take care.
2007-03-18 05:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's over and start looking for a normal guy
2007-03-18 04:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you dress ? maybe the way you carry yourself only attracts this kind of guy. dress for success and you will find it. dress like a hoochi and you will be treated like one. now dress with class and style and that's how you will be treated.
2007-03-18 05:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by cool_hand_luke613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you very attractive and sexy and and irresistible! You must also have a great attitude to go with everything else.
2007-03-18 04:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is there any other kind of guys? I wish I could be informed where I can find them..
2007-03-18 04:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋