Does she like me?

Question

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.

Her statement about never falling for her has thrown me off... what do you think?

Answer 1

Yes, she likes you. You guys sound adorable, why not make it official?

Answer 2

i think she doesn't only likes u but loves u like anything.
let me give u few tips...u have to be romantic to her from now onwards.invite her to a candle light dinner with some soft music ...give her a red rose and dance with her.don't go for sex or any thing.just make her feel good and comfortable.
call her at nights and tell her what u did all day long or that u miss her.
make her feel special on every occassion.make her meet ur parents.
when u do all these things the girl would be sure that u love her.
after melting her heart by doing all those special things that she admires...take het to some place that she loves and propose her there by giving her ring!
if she loves u she will wear ur ring and if does not loves u...she will make some exuses.
its gonna be u two to decide whether u really want to live together and marry or not.
i guess u both can make a great couple.go for it!
GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

You're getting mixed signals from this girl obviously. But I want to tell you that everything she has done that you have told us about could be classified under the "friendship" title to a girl. A girl that likes you would be alot more direct about it than this after this length of time. Girls truly do consider some men as friends. I believe that to a guy, friendship with women is unlikely. I think a girl that is a friend to a guys mind is just a girl that he has not had sex with ...yet. Having established with you, as she did, that you are a friend, she feels free to do all that she is doing and does not consider it mixed signals but just good 'man' friendship. You have two choices. To let it be as it is and sooner or later you will know if she intends to be other than just a friend. Or to be open and tell her how you feel and how you would like the relationship to go. The risk with the first choice is that you may spend forever waiting for something that will never be....or she will pipe up someday to tell you (her friend) about this guy she feels attracted to or who she's going to go out with. The second choice could result in her cutting you out because she only wanted friendship and you want something else.

Answer 4

She may like you but I feel that she may not be ready to commit into a relationship at this moment. Like you say, she has no short of admirers, so why is it that she didn't take any fancy? She just doesn't want to commit and she thinks you are a nice and honest guy, that's why she choose to be close to you... like a buddy, for a while. Hope you two work out soon... Good luck!!

Answer 5

Oh, she likes you. It sounds like she's perfectly content being single, though. However, if you like her, you should give it a shot and ask her out. There's always the chance she'll blow you off, but, unless she treats everyone this way, there's a bigger chance she won't. That's what I think, anyway.

Answer 6

I would proceed with caution. She's sending you mixed signals-- and it sounds deliberate. Who knows what she's really up to?

Of course, it's possible she really likes you (and I presume you like her) so I think you should hang in there and see where this goes.

But keep your eyes open-- it's no fun being played.

Answer 7

I think she likes you she just doesn't wanna hurt you......like she knows that you would easily fall for her....and she does not want to put you out there and then hurt you...so basically she is afraid to commit with you or anybody

Answer 8

yup! i do think she likes you.... actually not just like, but LOVES you. she's just scared of telling you so... and maybe scared that you might break her heart too. or that you may not be sincere of what you really feels about her. all you have to do is really prove it to her that you love her too. make her feel special everyday and to be always there when he needs you. but don't forget to make your friendship a stronger one. actually, she might be just like me. haha=> my boyfriend had waited 3 YEARS for me to tell him how much i love him.and you see, he earned his point. and don't forget to pray as well. it really helps a lot. and it makes a good relationship too. good luck to both of you...=>

Answer 9

i guess she likes u