i broke up with my ex 7 years ago, now she's here, she asked me to talk about stuff, we talked, she told me to be friends, i said we can't be friends...
then i asked her if she still have feelings for me, she said "No", she asked me and i said "Yes, i do have feelings for you" thats why we can't be friends.. she got shocked..!!
now we're chattin and i call her every since in a while, she tells me she misses me, and she's being forward with me, she even wants to go out with me sometimes..
i'm a lil bit confused here, if you were my ex, is there any chance that i get you back considering that i told her that i want her back and to think about it, she said she'll think about it..
why would you be forward with your ex who hurt you so bad way back in the past? is there any chance that i get her back? advice me please..!!!!!
2007-03-17 20:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by steve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
7 years ago is a long time.
They say time heals the wound of the heart.
I guess your ex, even though in some point inside her she is still hurt of whatever you have done to her, she's ready to face you once again.
I don't believe that she no longer has a feelings for you since you say that she's being forward and she even wanted to go out with you.
But then again, gurls sometimes do things they don't mean. Maybe she really just miss you in terms of the things you both shared before.
While what i said in latter was positive, there might be a negative thing out of this.
since you told her that you still like her, maybe, well just maybe she just wanted to get even.
Decision still lies with you, if you're willing to take risk because of what you're feelin then go for it. Only you yourself will decide in the end.
2007-03-17 21:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She really wants to get back with you, but do you? Why did you even broke up in the first place? there a lot of things to consider. You both should think about this. What if the 7 years ago situation repeats? Have an open talk with her. That should help.
2007-03-18 04:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by yoyo_kiss_2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants you back...she testing on how much you want her back. By stalling she is giving you that very test of "How long will he wait for me?" Don't fall in the trap and wait oso long to the point of forgetting. You need to treat her like your girlfriend even though you and her really aint together. Now if happened to get back together, make sure whatever you did has a boyfriend while not really being a boyfriend didn't raise the bar SOOO high that it get be reached.
2007-03-18 04:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Answerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure there is! maybe ur ex was really hurt 7 years ago that's why she said she has no feelings for you anymore or she in denial. or maybe she just like you to make moves since you said you still like her like showing your sincerity. in short, maybe she wants you to court her again but this time i think she will make it hard for you, so she'll know how much you really love her since you hurt her before. if you really like her then show it to her and no matter how hard it is, dont give up.
2007-03-18 04:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by nLUVender 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might be a little confused. She might not want you now, but she wants to keep you around for when she does. Sorta like a back-up. My advice is leave her the hell alone and get on with your life.
2007-03-18 04:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by rece 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u don't even have to ask others...im sure u too know that she wants to get back into a relationship./..
but im not sure who cheated whom...so if u were the culprit...its gonna take lotta time for her to make up her mind tho she's madly in love with u again...
girls are pretty emotional in these matters...tho u've ditched her...she'll love u secretly but its hard to commit the same mistake again...once bitten twice shy
2007-03-18 04:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In life at a point everyone do realizes that i have done that wrong(any matter) so wants to have a come back. In this life one can b given a chance to come back , if that one has realized it by heart that i was wrong and would'nt do it again.
Besides "to err is human" to forgive is devine . try to resolve.
2007-03-18 04:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by lovelyhubby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants you back
2007-03-18 03:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did u do to her? depends on the 'bad' but....maybe she is able to move forward. maybe you can too.. peace
2007-03-18 04:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was just talking b4, now she wants u
2007-03-18 03:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Watel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋