I want to start being hard i feel am not being hard enough meaning I shoudn t give a girl money every week that was wrong for me i should had help her a little bit not too much. She ask me to buy food for her sometimes twice a day and about almost every week she needs money to put on her phone. She ask me about $20 or more. I probably should had chose the girl more carefully. Am telling myself I better put my foot down I saying to myself I can t let myself down I didn t know i wasn t thinking i did the wrong thing until my brother told me about his and my account he find out i was taking a lot of money i was using it because my atm card expire So he ask me did you use some of the money to give to the girl I admit i did use some of the money. he say that don t give her anymore money until she give me some skins he say some woman will respect that when you put your foot down sometimes she ask for more then $20 I should had told her to work overtime?
2007-03-17 20:51:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wasn t thinking because i feel always lonely in my house and i just need company plus i going to Atlanta this may and I experience it and all the women are friendly he say if i keep giving her money that i will lose going to the trip. Me and the girl maikng arrangement of going out i want to try to take her out and bring her to my house so she can give me some skin. And by the way she never pay me back some of the money I gave her my brother say make her pay me back by giving me some skins.
2007-03-17 20:57:23 · update #1
She is taking advantage of you, and probably gloating about it to her friends.....get rid of her....
2007-03-17 21:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give the girl money regardless. If she isn't your girlfriend and you guys aren't totally and endlessly in love and she is just going through a rough spot right now and she needs some money to get back on her feet..THEN I say YES. But that's probably not the case. This chick is too needy and if you have a relationship with her the more time and money you spend on her the more she will expect from you. She really needs to learn how to stand on her own two feet before she is mature enough to deserve a guy like you. You need to put your foot down IMMEDIATELY and if she quits talking to you..she was just using you for your money and you don't need her...You need the money and the self respect alot more than you need a golddigger.
JUST MY OPINION...
Quantum
2007-03-18 03:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ll My brother told me this you not winning she s winning you have to know when enough is enough don t make her take adventage of you or else you will feel stupid be a man let her know you not willy to give her money every week let her know she on her own that you got bills and other stuff to pay tell her you can t afford to give her money. Or next time she ask you again be like i don t have any. If she think you fronting and she don t want to be your friend it worth it. It better you look for a girl that have good money and will not be too much independant with you to lend her money. You should had ask her why you can ask anybody else for money tell her you not the only one to ask for money tell her other people can help you do.
2007-03-18 04:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer my friend. She's milking you and you know it. your probably a really nice guy and that's alright, but you need to know when your being used. I think you do, now. So if she asks you for more money, tell her your broke or you don't have any. That may bring out her true intentions.
now, if you know a girl that you like and she has money then go for it! You probably wont use her like you were used BUT at least you know she's not going to drain your pockets.
2007-03-18 03:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by book 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you aren't going to give her any more money, but leave out the part about skins- If she takes that the way I took it she'll kick your teeth in! And don't take any more advice from your idiot brother. Women don't respect men that take advice from morons.
2007-03-18 03:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think paying for occasions is fine.. She just sounds like a gold digger or someone who is too lazy to find a job
2007-03-18 03:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl with money and she'll aways expect you to have it.
Find a girl with little and she'll be happy with what you have.
2007-03-18 04:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone with a job that is not in love with her cell phone.
2007-03-18 03:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jim W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can i borrow $20?
2007-03-18 03:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by (A)+(E) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... get rid of the girl, tell her you aren't going to pay for everything... find a new girl.. dont let them wall all over you.......
2007-03-18 03:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋