My boyfriend's going to a carshow tomorrow with his friends and Im probably gonna go too not very sure (well all the other guys gf are going too) but here's my question theirs going to be a bikini contest and my bf told that I better let him enjoy the show and act like all guys do when they see a bunch of girls in bathing suits. Guys will be guys right? And I shouldn't worry...or should i ?
2007-03-17 20:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go and have fun with the guys. Those girls are out of their legue. You have nothing to worry about.
Best case scenario - he'll get all hot and make a bee line to you.
2007-03-17 20:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't think him telling you that you better let him enjoy the show and act like all guys do when they see a bunch of girls in bathing suits, was the correct way for him to tell you that. Sorry I just find that a bit disrespectful, you are his girlfriend he shouldn't talk to you that way. He could spoken to you in a nicer way.
If you do decide to go, when he begins acting like that, do not show that it even bothered you, you might even just look occupied talking with the other girls etc. I would ask the other girls going how they feel about the bikini contest. Don't let that make you feel inadequet. But you should think on how it makes you feel.
It's one thing if he is just there for the show and there happens to be the contest and he wants to be a guy with the other guys. However, I don't think him going all crazy or acting in a way that is inappropriate to you is alright. Someone else said above that he may just end up hot and bothered and make a "bee line to you". If my guy got all turned on by another girl, he sure as hell better not come to me for relief, I wouldn't want to be a tool for him to get off to another girl.
2007-03-17 20:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.
To Be Honest From What He Said, I Dont Know If You Should Be Worried Or Not Because I Think He Said That To Make Sure You Dont Get Upset If You See Him, You Know Acting When All The Girls Are In There Bikini's.
So Basically Im Trying To Say Hes Just Trying To
Warn You/Stop You From Getting Upset.
2007-03-17 20:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like a bit of a turn off...
Although you shouldn't completely restrict his daily activities, there should - I would think - be some kind of mutual consent between the two of you. Sit down with him one day, and when he is comfortable, speak to him about your concerns. Ask him not too many questions for it may seem you are distrustful. You might want to even ask him indirect questions. Example would be "Do you think a boyfriend should disrespect his girlfriend by doing..." That's just an example of course however. Also, don't ask too many questions or it will seem disrespectful or may seem you don't trust him. Prioritize. One big question or just a few. I honestly think you just need some reassuring for your heart. Once that is done, your level of trust will increase and everything will be fine!
Good Luck!
2007-03-17 20:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a real creep. It's one thing for him to look at the girls, but to demand that you act a certain way and expect that it will be OK with you for him to hoot and holler like a farm animal is just too much! I don't think you have anything to *worry* about -- after all, you'll be there so it's not like he's gonna hook up with one of the bikini girls -- but he sounds like he isn't very concerned about your feelings. He wants the benefits of having a girlfriend but not having to take responsibility for acting like someone's boyfriend. Not cool.
Good luck.
2007-03-17 20:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i would get mad if my boyfriend looked at another girl especially if they are half naked in some 2 bit bikini but hey that is just me i have insecurities i guess
but if you know that your boyfriend is not the cheating type and if it won't make him think hmm wow those girls are way prettier than my girlfriend i have now..i could be with a girl like that if i wasn't stuck with her...****
if you know your boyfriend is not like that then
everything should be fine just don't let him touch
cause all he can do is "run to end of his chain and bark!"
2007-03-17 20:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, yet you're loopy. This ex of yours STABBED you. He introduced you actual harm and additionally you're nevertheless in a relationship with him? Your new bf appears like he knows of what he's talking approximately.
2016-10-02 07:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife would KILL me.....If he is going to get hot and bothered looking at other girls, you should NOT go. Let him go, and when he comes home to YOU ready to play, Don't give it up!!! He will learn his lesson BIG TIME. He does sound like a jerk though.
2007-03-17 20:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by mac-won 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with him ogling other girls. on the other hand, if u are worried u will start to feel jealous or sad that he's paying attention to other girls, then DON'T GO. dont subject urself to seeing that.
2007-03-17 20:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry, unless he talks to one of the girls after the show, lol
but yeah, guys will be guys, you have nothing to worry about as long as he's doing just that-->WATCHING the show
2007-03-17 20:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by I've Got a Question for You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋