months and then broke up because we used to fight over small things. Then we did not see each other for seven months...Yesterday one of my close friend invited me to her party. She told me that she also invited my ex-boyfriend because both I and my boyfriend are her best friends. However, she heard that he was dating someone else. And she warned me that he might bring that girl with him and treat her special and make me feel jealous....If he really brought his girl friend to the party, What should I do, what should I say to them to show that I'm ok without him...(Please don't tell me "don't go to the party to prevent you from getting heartach", I don't want to feel like a chicken and a loser.
2007-03-17 20:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by yenhu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why in the world would he treat her "special" to make YOU feel jealous?? If he does, you are well rid of him, and she would be too. Maybe your friend is a drama queen?
If you are really okay with moving on, you are okay with him moving on too, so just act as you would meeting anyone's girlfriend: pleased to meet and friendly. Just not too little and not too much.
ADDED: The "small" things over which you broke up are never really small.
2007-03-17 20:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that definately would not sound conventional, and that i do no longer think of you're being paranoid. he's flirting huge-time along with her and texting her each and all the time...you would be able to desire to permit him comprehend how this makes you experience and if he would not have sufficient know for you, to end doing it, then you definitely would desire to reassess no count number if or no longer you pick him as a boyfriend.
2016-10-01 02:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to the party and be yourself, if they come near u smile and say hello and be civil, hang around ur friends and other guys who make u feel good about yourself and happy. if he obviously tries to make u jealous just turn around and dont even look at them
2007-03-17 20:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just avoid being near them as much as possible to save urself from further pain. just think abt this, in case he is making u feel jealous then that means he still likes u coz he bothers still on wat u will feel.that means u have to feel more confident being around them and that makes u a winner girl. but in case that is not his intention then u just have to be urself and avoid being around them. enjoy the other cute guys in the party. u deserve someone better anyway.
2007-03-17 20:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes her feel special its because he's with her...it isnt to make you jealous though you might feel uncomfortable ...that would be normal. just have a good time with the people you know and dont talk about the ex and his girl...surely, they wont be discussing you. peace
2007-03-17 20:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
even if you feel jealous or anger act like you dont care. trust me if he brings his girl hes is hoping to get you jealous angry sad but if you act like you dont care then you win (even if your dying on the inside)
2007-03-17 20:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him see that it bothers you. No matter what be friendly and smile. Maybe find a new guy to get to know.
2007-03-17 20:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up months ago he is NOT your boyfriend. So you shouldn't do anything. He can date anyone he wants to...you don't own him.
2007-03-17 20:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that nothing ever happened...EVER. Just pretend he is another random guy with a girl
GOOF LUCk
2007-03-17 20:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not you bring a cool guy along..be happy and be you..YOU is more important than any other side thing..cheer up..
2007-03-17 20:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by dandelion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋