I like a girl. We have met several times but now i like her and i want to propose her. But i never had such experience before. This is my first time And i am afraid of asking her directly. I want she to be my girlfriend. I really want to make a love. This is the first time in my life. And i don't want to fail in this. I am a bit of shy type of person. I always hesitate while talking with girls with similar ages.
2007-03-17 20:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Gaurav K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have only dated this girl a "few" times, then you have no clue what she is about. Try giving it atleast a year, date, have a good time WAIT on sex and then if you still feel you love her and she feels the same then there will be no doubt in either of your minds.or hearts
2007-03-17 20:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by grandmabonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all my friend shy is good concerning the situation at hand. you should never rush into any kind of proposal. this is a delicate situation. You need to take it smoothly. Set the mood, maybe some candles. give her compliments, lead up to it. say things that are near the subject of proposing and see what she says whats her reaction is. if you have met with this woman several times, she already said yes you just dont know it yet. the time it takes outta your day, your life to meet with someone is precious. she is giving that time to you, you should think about that. she already said yes you just have to ask the question now. like i said remember, lead up to it. shyness is good.
2007-03-17 20:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by The LuvDoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note that tells her how you feel, but don't mention the love making part. It's not time for that yet, and there's no rush. It's okay to tell her you're shy, she probably already knows that. I like the way you write. I think it's sweet and sincere, and I would bet that she will like it, too. Don't worry about failing- If she isn't interested, you'll find someone who is.
2007-03-17 20:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think she feels about you? Write her a letter, poem, flowers etc. Go to the library and read up on cofidence, proposals, etc. What is wrong with the similar age?
2007-03-17 20:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know her a little bit more before you ask her to marry you. If you ask her now, she might get scared and run away.
Date her for a couple of years, then ask her to marry you if you feel the same way about her that you do today.
2007-03-17 20:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by coconutnoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to ask her out! it seems that you havent been with each other long enough to "propose" to her.
Just ask her out...if you think about it, the worst thing that can happen is she will say no. I understand that it's not that easy but just go for it, you will kick yourself for the rest of you life if you dont
Good Luck!!!!!
2007-03-18 11:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by lilly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you're not proposing to her. dats when ur asking her to marry you. your asking her out. u say u've only met with her a couple of times, i suggest you give it a lil bit more time and get to know her more and get more comfortable with her. and then, its up to you how you want to do it, be yourself and just remember, wats da worse that can happen?
she'll say no, and life goes on.
2007-03-17 20:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u talking about proposing marriage to a girl who isnt even ur gf yet? just take it slow or u will scare her off
2007-03-17 20:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving her a nice card,and yes you have to build up your confidence level.
2007-03-17 20:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go for a cup of coffee.
2007-03-17 20:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋