My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and then he wanted to break up with me because we fight a lot. I still love him and he says he still loves me and cares about me. He also said that he dont know if he wants to be with me. Im so confused. Everybody thinks we are an awesome couple and his family really likes me. His dad even calls me his daughter. Does he want to be with me or not. Help!!!
2007-03-17 20:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him to give you a chance to prove to him you can change if he says yes then use there,s 4 things #1no name calling#2 don,t yell and scream #3 think of what he is going though.#4 don,t hold a gruge#5 don,t being things up from the past.#6don,t end a fight angery the same for him.
2007-03-17 20:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just left you high and dry. That's a damn shame he ran. For cover as soon as the **** hit the fan. It's funny how people can. Just throw that 4 letter word around. And not implement it into actions. Don't get me wrong. I'm not attacking you or him. Because only you know. What the real deal is. Presently just wade your time. And try not to nag. Or pressure him. About getting back together. If it is meant to be. Then all will fall in place accordingly. Right now this "you" time. So take this time. To do something productive. Maybe go out. And pamper yourself.
2007-03-18 03:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by andelagdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to examine those things that you fight about...are these petty stuff or heavy (serious) stuff? You know, sometimes two people can be so in love with each other and yet can't seem to get beyond the little things - so they bicker constantly. How about a moratorium? So you agree to split, say for 1 mo - no contact at all - then have a talk after a month and see where it goes from there. Are you cool with that?
Good luck...........SMILE!
2007-03-18 03:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey it sounds like your giving your boyfriend all the options here. what about what you want? look inside yourself and remember that in relationships, you may get so close to the person that you want space. if your fighting alot dont call it quits just have a small break to figure out what you both want
2007-03-18 03:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweety Returnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fight alot, then you are not a good couple. Maybe he is only with because his parents like you, but has no real intentions of staying you. He seems to want to move on go out with other girls.
2007-03-18 03:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes both of you fight? then both of you should take a break and give some space to think about your relation better.i will call a guy as a good boyfriend if he care to listen to me and of course having a warm hug.be patient..
2007-03-18 03:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by dandelion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breeds contempt. If you really "Love" each other you'll stick it out. Any couple can get through easy times. Strong couples make it through hard times.
2007-03-18 03:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't want to be with you if he's telling you that.He may be with you because every body says you make a good couple and he trying to live up to their expectations
2007-03-18 03:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by damarony896 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to solve your problems in a calm and sweet manner as man like softness in girls if you remain calm and understand him surly he will listen to you .don't fight with him and cooperate .if you maintain calm in life i believe you will achieve what you want don't worry do your regular prayer and god will help you.and i pray god for your happy wedding day to come soon good luck
2007-03-18 03:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he really want you...NO.
2007-03-18 03:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋