well me and my bf have been dating for 3 and a half months now about, and weve gotton REALY close, we split up once, but that wasnt either of our fults it was my friends, so we let that pass. Then resently i called him up, and i guess he was having a bad day, and he got mad at me cuz i tried calling him 3 times while he was in skool, and i forgot he was in skool, cuz i wasnt, i said im sorry for it, then he handed the phone to his friend, and he talked to me for a minute then he hung up on me! i tried calln it back but nobody answered. Then i seen him at the libary the other day, and i didnt see him cuz he was in the corner, and he said sompin to me, so i went over to him, and we were like all silent and stuff, then when i went to talk, he like shot right up out of his chair and like attacked! im guessing an old friend he hadnt seen for a while? then i left cuz i got dizzy, so i stepped outside, then i tried calln him 2 days ago, ill put the rest on added details...
2007-03-17 19:55:11 · 16 answers · asked by Nichole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then i tried calln him maybe 2 days ago, bout 3 days after the incident @ the libary, and his phone has been off, then today i kept calln it, and soon it said that that # wasnt a workin #!!!?? so i dont know if he just changed the # or what, i was thinkin on goin to his house monday and sayin im sorry and i loved him, is that a good idea?! or what should i do!! i love him SOOOO much, and i cant just let him go, WHAT DO I DO?! plz give me some advice...
2007-03-17 19:57:42 · update #1
ya but thats it guys! i cant dump him!! ive fallin in love!! some of you shouldknow what thats like!! i love him more than anything! and he said he would NEVER leave me!! and we would stay together 4ever, or until i dumped him!! and i can do it!! i love him!!
2007-03-17 20:03:29 · update #2
the key to relationship is communication. try to talk to him if not my cell phone, call his house phone or see if you cant catch him in school or something. talk to him about the situation and so forth. if you love him that much you shouldn't give up because of a little fight. good luck
2007-03-17 20:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If, in the event that this guy is not gay and even slightly interested in you, the very best thing you can do is stop talking to him. Stop calling him, stop being available to him. Go out with your girlfriends and have a good time. You may not stop thinking about him or forget him, but you have to act like you have. This is really effing stupid, but it's just plain true. Guys don't like girls who are too into them; call them all the time and wait for them to pay attention. It really sucks, and it's hard to do, but that's the best thing to do.
i wish someone had told me this at your age.
2007-03-17 20:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by neamhni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to call him up,if he doesn't wants to talk to you,What's 3 and half months..If the guy really loves you ,he won't hurt you, he will respect you and care for you.Your still very young,you can find the better guy that is really for you..If your meant for each other,no matter what happens dear..Cheer up!!Life must go on with out him>Enjoy your life with new friends and entertain new suitors.
2007-03-17 20:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by summergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through a similiar thing. The guy I'm with is ignoring me too. I really don't know what to do except give him some space for awhile, or threaten to leave him unless he treats you better or tells you what's going on. There could be something else or he is getting sick of the relationship.
2007-03-17 19:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by dwmf05 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww hun...
That was his way of breaking up with you. :(
Sometimes, people just don't have the decency to say it to your face.
It's over.
He changed his number. That was the final sign.
As for your additional details... Leave him alone unless you want him to get a restraining order against you. You don't want to be labeled a stalker.
2007-03-17 20:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing--what you need to do is start worrying about yourself. When you sound so dumb, can't spell, and seem unable to take a hint, you do not have any visible charms that might attract a guy. DUMB GIRLS ARE BORING!! He has passed on you, and pursuing him will only annoy him and make you look like an idiot.
Get a life!!
2007-03-17 20:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by hwatease 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is a loser and isnt really into u as much as u thought he was. u need to dump him, and move on with your life. hopefully, the next guy u date will enjoy ur phone calls and appreciate u caring so much. forget about this weirdo, and get on with your life.
2007-03-17 19:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u need to move on & in the future maybe give a little more space
2007-03-17 19:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by megcheeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, dont torture yourself. Accept the fact that its not going to work. How much does he have to avoid you.
2007-03-17 20:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like bad news
2007-03-17 19:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by PradoSam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋