How am i going to maintain a boring relationship? My bf doesnt really likes shopping and whenever we shop, he gives me a very boring face as if he is gonna fall dead if i go into another shop. We do watch movies but not almost every movies are nice to watch. What else can i do with him besides shopping and movies? He seems happier with his friends, he can always hang out till late midnight with them but not with me! He likes soccer, so i tried to immerse myself with it and i actually quite like it. He loves playing Dota too, but i'm not very interested. HELP ME! I love him alot and don't wish to lose him because of a lifeless relationship we're having here. What can i still do to have a wonderful time and relationship with him?
2007-03-17 19:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How am i going to maintain a boring relationship? My bf doesnt really likes shopping and whenever we shop, he gives me a very boring face as if he is gonna fall dead if i go into another shop. We do watch movies but not almost every movies are nice to watch. What else can i do with him besides shopping and movies? He seems happier with his friends, he can always hang out till late midnight with them but not with me! He likes soccer, so i tried to immerse myself with it and i actually quite like it. He loves playing Dota too, but i'm not very interested. HELP ME! I love him alot and don't wish to lose him because of a lifeless relationship we're having here. What can i still do to have a wonderful time and relationship with him? Sometimes i also find it very difficult to communicate with him, he's very fierce whenever we quarrel but i know we do love each other alot. I cant tell him he's boring, he'll tell me "you regret being with me already?" =( in fact, i didnt regret it at all.
2007-03-17 20:01:09 · update #1
you should ask yourself what he's doing to get involved in our interests. It should go both ways.
2007-03-17 19:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something missing that is boring you? He isn't being interesting to you that after a while it just gets boring as it keeps repeating and repeating? Is that the problem? If it doesn't work out why don't you try putting in your own excitement and surprising him, see if that brings something out of him. Are you missing some excitement in the bed? I do not know if your old enough for that buttt maybe your missing some dirtiness cause that always bring the relationships up. But if your still young do not take my advice lol My relationship is flaming hot that's what i have to say! xD
2016-03-29 04:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Donna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to watch soccer games on tv at home. watch some good movies as well with him at home and prepare some good snacks that u can share together while watching. Try to have mutual friends that u can both hang around with. Do ask him to have lunch or dinner out sometimes even when there is no special occasion so u can have bonding moments. or walk around in ur village with him holding each other's hands and u can catch up on the things that happened with both of u for that day.
2007-03-17 20:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? It seems to me the romance has already gone out of the window. Maybe it's time to move on. You described it as a lifeless relationship - that's the same thing as a loveless relationship. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate your feelings --- maybe it's high time to close this particular chapter. What do you think?
Good luck! SMILE!
2007-03-17 20:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try shifting gears, if you truly love him and want to save the relationship, try to change the routine, communicate more, try to tell each other your likes and dislikes. Next time if you go shopping with him, buy him something you can afford, try to rent old movies in vcd or dvd and watch at your home or his home, get to know the parents or family, know his friends and see if you could hang out with him if he likes or better yet, play soccer with him one on one, kiss him a lot , hug him, whatever, just spice it up ! .... and if this still does'nt work....you'll know what to do. !
2007-03-25 15:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by oki doki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play cards, computer games. Cook something together. Go to local sports events, local theatre, coffee/juice shops.
2007-03-17 19:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u both have different interest, its probably good because it gives you both the chance to have space. When you are together, try to do different things like trying out new restuarants or bowling...double date with some of his friends and yours...do things that keep things interesting when u r together..it will keep arguement down. good luck!
2007-03-17 19:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by megcheeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date Date Date! Have fun... Good Luck!
2007-03-25 11:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by TheExpert 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, you can tell him that you are boring with him. Request him to make enjoyable environment.
2007-03-17 19:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by M.A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're surprised a man doesn't like shopping?
2007-03-17 19:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋