What do I do?

Question

I met this guy in class, were in college, asked me for my # he seemed cool so I gave it to him like 2 weeks ago. We have been hangn out, when out to eat I have been over his house a few times and hung out watched movies. It got hot and heated b/c were attracted to each other but I am holding out and we had a long conversation about it being too soon to have sex. I want to wait but I want to have sex with him too and he calls and TM me everyday, all day Im just really tryn to figure him out, he said he was feelin me and today he told me he MISSED me ??? I am like damn WTF. Is he just tryn to get sum, or is he really feelin like he say. I dont know if I would want a relationship with him but I dont want to get used and have to look at him every tues/thurs until the end of the semester. What do you think? He seems to be real good at what is tryn to do. Is this dude just playn me? I dont know? Guys will say whatever they have to, to get some *** :)

Answer 1

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't give this guy any. His game is so weak. Just out of curiosity, have you two even been out anywhere (nice)? You should not have gone over his house, particularly if it was at night. He is calling and TM because he's trying to wear you down. You said it best yourself. You don't want to have to look at him everyday (as well as his friends who you know he is going to tell all of his business to) also. You don't want to have to go through the horror of watching him go from all crazy about you to how he barely says 'sup and then walks by you like he doesn't even know you after you have had sex.

I'm not even going to go into the part about pregnancy or STD's. You're in college, and I know you're smart.

Please don't do it, my sister. Focus on your schoolwork, hanging out with your (female) friends, and go to church. You know God doesn't want you doing that. Pray about it and God will give you a way out. You will be sooooooo glad you didn't do it.

Answer 2

I think you're the player and user at least as much as he is.