Well I've been in this relationship for awhile with this guy. He used to be so good to me and now he is treating me terrible. Ignoring me when I call or text him, and when he comes online I will try and talk to him and he won't say anything. Just a few says ago he was nice to me, treating me good, and saying he loves me. Now he is completely ignoring me and he does this often, talking one day and then ignoring me the next. But he has never been this bad, not even speaking to me. I'm crying and don't know what to do, because I'm still in love.
2007-03-17 19:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by dwmf05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I've been in this relationship for awhile with this guy. He used to be so good to me and now he is treating me terrible. Ignoring me when I call or text him, and when he comes online I will try and talk to him and he won't say anything. Just a few days ago he was nice to me, treating me good, and saying he loves me. Now he is completely ignoring me and he does this often, talking one day and then ignoring me the next. But he has never been this bad, not even speaking to me. I'm crying and don't know what to do, because I'm still in love. But I feel like he is playing games with me, I wish he would tell me what's going on.
2007-03-17 19:49:16 · update #1
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2007-03-25 15:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by GrassRootsRabbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope I am wrong in telling you what that usually means but it could mean you have competition. He loves you and doesn't want to let you go but is venturing in other waters too. He is trying to decide between the two of you. I understand though, I am madly in love with my boyfriend and he does the same thing to me. He says he is busy and can't always talk to me. Some guys don't like to be smothered. They consider talking all the time to being smothered. Don't cry. Ask him what the problem is and you will feel better, I promise.
2007-03-25 23:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt this way with my boyfriend of 13 months as well.
Just try to give him the benefit of a doubt. I know this will be very hard to do..... but wait till HE contacts you.
I am actually in the process of doing that myself. My boyfriend hasn't talked to me in a couple days. His grandma is in the hospital and everything and he hasn't even returned a phone call from lastnight. I am giving him the benefit of a doubt and I am sure he has a good reason for not calling back.
We will go through this together! Everything will be OKAY. â¥
2007-03-18 02:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen dear,
Your going to cry if you two do break up. (From the sounds of it sooner than later) Get it over and done with, break up now and cry it all out.
Have you no respect? Pick yourself up, wipe the dirt off and climb back up that ladder.
First start by pretending your already broken up, phone good friends or meet new people, go places. Anywhere and but where you two used to go.
After every rain fall is a rainbow- Now go find that pot of gold you so richly deserve.
YOU CAN DO IT!
2007-03-18 02:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be two ways of looking at this. One-if you are the clinging vine type person you may be smothering him to the point he wants to avoid you. or Two- he might have other girlfriends he is talking with on line and wants some freedom!
2007-03-18 02:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
COME AND TALK TO ME THEN I NEVER TREAT ANYONE AS I LIKE TO BE TREATED OK
WHATS HE ON ABOUT WANKER OR TRYING TO DITCH YA MORE LIKE IT markiss nt darwin move on or suffer been stood on ok
2007-03-18 02:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he need something u r not aware off.
be calm & try set with him & ask him if he is still intrested & waht is going on.
2007-03-18 03:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt include lying and ignoring
2007-03-25 14:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by salar b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋