why do my friends like me help
2007-03-17 19:29:27 · 18 answers · asked by lil rich girl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
people like friendly people. popular people are friendly. you are friendly
2007-03-17 19:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks and $$ will only get you so far in life. Junior High is right around the corner, please be careful, people will use you for your money if you let them.Rather than spending, you should be saving-set yourself up a bank account and try to put 50% (half)of what you get each time. I'm assuming you get an allowance because there are child labor laws set up.
Don't you think you are a likable person? Why would you ask why do your friends like you? They should like you because you are a nice person, because you have a sense of humor, because they have a lot in common with you, etc...
2007-03-18 16:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by little lu-lu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have money that can make people "like" you because they hope you'll spend some on them. If you're pretty people may "like" you because they hope you'll draw in more pretty people. Either of those are pretty shallow reasons to have a friendship with someone and that relationship won't last long if times get tough.
True friends like you for who you are and what you do together. That kind of friendship can get strong enough to last through any disaster.
Just being richer or pretty doesn't mean you don't have true friends, it just means you have to be a good judge of character to be able to tell the difference. And having acquaintances (friends in the first category) isn't necessarily bad. You just don't want to be counting on those people for anything really important.
2007-03-18 11:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Critter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are a nice person. people these days are always trying 2 put people down for something. you obviously are very confident form the way you speak so i would try not 2 worry about what other people say to you. I am sure that your true friends like you for who you are, whether you were rich/popular or not. Good friends never judge their mates so i suggest stop listening to those kids who say that stuff about you and enjoy the company of your own friends
have a great day hun
good luck and don't let it get you down
2007-03-18 02:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Katie L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if you're friends only like you because you have a lot of money and you're small and pretty they're not very good friends. People should like you for who you are and your inner qualities. If they only hang out with you for your looks and things they are wrong. If your friends like you for your inner qualities then thats great and it's all that matters. Just hang in there!
2007-03-18 20:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by bas(s)den,liZee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very shallow... I mean, come on! You really need to change the way that you are acting. You are soon on your way to not having ANY friends. People may "like" you now because you are "popular" but once you all are grown and everyone realizes that their true friends are not the ones that they pretended to like just because you are popular. Please just be genuine and don't say things like that because really, it makes you sound pretty lame. No offense!
2007-03-18 11:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't care how much money or stuff tou have. A good friend you will know because they will love and help you with anything that gets brought before you in your journey of life.
2007-03-18 02:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by spyder 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your friends aren't dirty old men?
If you are really asking, maybe you need to take a look at yourself and trust they like you for being yourself. But if you are pretending to be someone you are not, then no wonder you are questioning it. You're 11 you have a lot to learn about yourself, trust your instincts and be humble in your beginnings.
Now, go to bed.
2007-03-18 02:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by knowitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, IT`S YOUR PARENTS MONEY!Being small and pretty may not get you everything in life. I wouldn`t bank on being popular because of these reasons.
2007-03-18 16:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you have a lot of money if you are 11? if you are spending money on these people then that most likey why they are your friends. make them pay for their own stuff and see how many of them come around.
2007-03-18 02:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by PharmDiva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People who are worth having as friends like you for your personality.
2007-03-18 05:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋