my best girlfriend and I are both curious about sex with women, but we are worried that fooling around with each other will ruin our friendship, will it?
2007-03-17 18:47:51 · 44 answers · asked by Dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have never had sex with my best female friend, but with my best guy friend. We were close since junior high school and finally gave in to the "what would it be like?" question.
Thankfully, we were able to move past it but I think if either of us weren't more committed to our friendship it would have destroyed it.
Guy or girl, think it through seriously before acting on it. Once you take that step, no matter how hard you try things are never the same afterward. Especially if either of you develop feelings for the other on a level different than friendship.
2007-03-17 18:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by astreastar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might if when you do fool around you don't like it. Have you made out with her? If you really are interested in doing it you should take to her about it. Tell her you love her as a friend and don't want to lose her. Try touching each other sexually first, and if you both like it and still want to try sex, give it a try. But don't go without serious communication.
2007-03-17 18:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can possibly ruin your friendship. One or both of you may regret it later and things will be awkward between you. Save sex for someone you love.
2007-03-17 18:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by M N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to know something like that i think it would be best to experience it with someone you already know, it all depends on how you two feel for one another as friends now if it will change your friendship or not cause if you two are cool like that and no that you don't want to be in a gay or bisexual relationship then i don't see why not but if you two are feeling each other in a different way and find one another attractive or wouldn't want the other to be with someone else then i say no it will only be problems.
2007-03-17 19:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it would ruin ur friendship b/c u will become more than friends and loose interest in guys and just stick w/girls and plus u might get in arguments over something or insult each other and start something. So I wouldn't even think about that.
2007-03-17 18:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could definitely make things awkward between the two of you. I wouldn't suggest getting intimate with a best friend. Male or female. It's not worth the risk of losing the friendship.
2007-03-17 18:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will ruin the friend ship it ok to be curious just make sure its with someones. So the answer is no no no. If you love your friend as a friend you will not do it. Remember curiosity killed the cat.
2007-03-18 10:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest that you do, actually. Adolescence (as I presume that you are a teenager) is about experimentation, and it would be better for you to experiment now than always wonder what might have happened. If you don't do this now, you might never know if you're actually a lesbian or at least bisexual. If you DO experiment with her, then you will know whether your curiosity is genuine interest, or simply curiosity. It could change your life!
2007-03-17 18:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by sharp will always be flying 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ewwwwwm dude don't do it!!!!!!
gosh.......u will feel so weird around u'r friend, at least that's what I think. But then I don't about u cause I mean u thought about it sooooooo u might have a diff rent opinion.
It's just weird, I don't think it's worth to risk the friendship just because u r curious.
2007-03-20 06:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nishu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's tricky...if it's just fooling around...well then it might make things akward...if you see there being a chance of a real relationship I would say it may be worth pursuing...if not you're better off experimenting with someone else, good luck!
2007-03-17 18:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by David W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋