i'm 17 and my gf is 14 me and her r planing on getting married on nov 3,2011 i'll be 21 and she'll be 18 and truning 19 the next day i truely love her and my family loves her and she love me and my family and her family loves me do u think it would be good for us to get married then we r madly in love with eachother i already got her a promise ring and started to put payments on her engagment ring we really want to get married and we picked nov 32011 cuz we got together nov 3 2006
2007-03-17 18:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by ASP06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
her family and mine know about our relationship and is behide us 100% they want us to get married they see how prefect we r together and me and her didnt even bring up the word marriage our familys did and we just went with it cuz we love eachother with all our hearts and soul our familys say they cant wait for us to get married and have kids and me and her cant wait eatiher
2007-03-17 18:47:35 · update #1
and we dont want to get engaged yet we r just staying bf and gf untill the summer befor her last year of high school
2007-03-17 18:50:20 · update #2
I think you are going at this far to quickly. You, and especialy her, are going to be doing alot of growing in the next few years. Chances are, some things are going to change. Slow things down a little and waite a few years. By then you may not be "madly in love".
If you realy want to know if the two of you are right for marriage wait these next 3-4 years and see how the two of you deal with the tough times. The good times are easy, the tough times are the true measuring stick of a relationship.
2007-03-17 18:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, if you truly loved her you would leave her. How can a girl of 14 committ to a man when she has never experienced life. This will go badly, watch any Jerry Springer or Dr.Phil...truly, leave the girl. Not because you don't love her, but because you do. Tell her when she is 18 or so, you will call and if she is available, you will pick right back up. Dont be a banjo picker man, let the child develop into a woman.
2007-03-18 01:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by batwanda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend is probably cheating on you by trying to get you to committ so hard to the relationship. If I were you, I wouldn't invest in anything. She'll probably get knocked up by your best friend and convince that you iz da babie's dadie. I would run.
(by the way, you've been dating her for 4 months and you're 17. If you touch her, you WILL go to a federal prision. Just something to think about chief.)
2007-03-18 01:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋