Where you begin to like someone after finding out they like you even if you weren't interested in them before?
2007-03-17 18:25:21 · 23 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MeanB: please learn not to be a hypocrite, thank you.
2007-03-17 18:27:58 · update #1
this can totally happen. it actually happened with me. this girl liked me...once i knew that, i paid attention to different cues. you look for things more, and you are also flattered that someone is interested in you. in my case, i didn't let the flattery make my decision...i did my research and made a calculated decision in the end. it's nice to know someone likes you...but make sure that if you start 'liking' them back, that it's for the right reasons.
2007-03-17 18:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by chase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but then I look back to find that I was mainly just interested in the high that my self esteem got from the other person wanting me. Be careful. It never worked out for me because my motivation for liking that person wasn't for the right reasons.
2007-03-18 01:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this has happened to just about everyone at some point. Once you actually see what a person is really about it is pretty easy to have some interest in them.
2007-03-18 01:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by shan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. and it think it's because when you know someone likes you you look at them in a different way. When you aren't interested in someone you don't pay much attention to them but right away them liking you makes them interesting... you know they have good taste at least!
2007-03-18 01:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by endorable 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It happens to me, and then I start getting confused. Do I actually like this guy, or am I just curious about him because he likes me? I think it happens in my case partly because there's no fear of rejection if he already likes me. It's safer, less risk of hurt for me.
2007-03-18 01:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by AnonymousGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, because you start to look at all of their good qualities and why you might like them. Then one you get with them, you start counting all of their bad qualities. Oh, & btw, Mean B says that on EVERY answer, pay no attention.
2007-03-18 01:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by TmB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually I have that exact thing happening to me rit now. I'm guessing it happens since ppl get so flattered that someone likes them that they actually like the person for liking them. (hopefully that made sense).
2007-03-18 01:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Salt Shaker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was that way with my boyfriend and I. We worked together. When I first met him he was just another dude to me, then he continuously flirted with me then asked for my number. So every time I saw him after that I liked him more and more.
2007-03-18 01:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you pretty little thing nice photo and yes ..it happens to a lot of us ..not like seeing aliens thou .there a special bunch of wankers (until See one then i,ll be a wanker) and that,ll be OK.
it,ll fit in with weird stupid ,dumb, strange and all those things people say when they dint understand.grrrrrrrrrrrr..
you just go on and be yourself as you look quite nice.well thats it from me markiss n.t darwin hoo roo..be cool &kind
2007-03-18 01:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But it doesn't mean it could not happen. There are people you could love right away, and others you have to learn to love.
2007-03-18 01:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋