My friends say six months max,but i love her and try hard to make it work. We have been living together three months,and seeing each other for five.
2007-03-17 18:22:20 · 21 answers · asked by TonyB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is 18 next month and mature for her age,i live in England so 16 is legal. she is young but i am not no paedophile.
2007-03-17 18:55:20 · update #1
I have to say that I have been in a situation similar. When I was 17 years old, I am now 18, I was with a 32 year old man. It was tough because my parents did not know and we were not able to live together. We were together for four months but things got tough because of the age difference. He had so much more experiance and wisdom that I just had not gone through yet. I still had a lot of growing up to do and he was already grown up. He thought that he was taking away some parts of my life that I needed to experiance that he had already experianced. It was tough becuase I fell for him and I thought that we would stay together. It is just so tough with the age difference. I am not saying it won't work, I am instead saying it won't be easy at all. Not only is it a relationship which are already hard as it is but there are some unusual factors that make it harder. If it is meant to be it will last, if it isn't then it won't. But spend the time you have together and cherish it. You won't know until you try long term commitment.
2007-03-17 18:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish i was in that situation... except maybe her being at least 18. It just depends on how you can get her to settle down. She's young and is probably going to want to experience going out and having fun and dating all kinds of guys (most young chicks do). But, if she's in love w/you, then do all you can to keep her. You'll probably have to pop the question within a year or 2.
2007-03-17 18:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks play a huge area in this. in case you seem youthful than 40 9 and he looks older than 34, it ought to artwork. yet you should love mothering, because subconsciously, it truly is what this guy is searching for. Get used to doing each thing spouse and little ones and then some. also, be careful of such issues as 'boys evening out', because those circumstances are acceptable for infidelity. Face it, finally he will favor some 'youthful meat' (age 21-30ish) close to to his youthful body to offset the sensation of your older body next to him each evening. Plus, 15 years enormous difference is more advantageous than a era. imagine about it; on the day he replaced into born, you've been likely questioning about what guy you've been going to lose your virginity to. it truly is an excellent generational enormous difference. be careful!
2016-11-26 20:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you live you could go to prison for that.
It can't work. You only want her for her young body. She only wants you because she confusedly considers you to be mature. In a couple of years she will realize and you'll be looked back on as "the worst mistake of her life".
2007-03-17 18:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 17 i dated a guy that was 31. We didn't sleep together since that's illegal here. I broke up with him because i was young and immature but i have regretted doing so ever since. So, give her time to grow up. But it can work
2007-03-17 19:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by bettiepage468 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ISN'T that a FELONY???? Bet it is wherever you live. When I was 17, my mother was 34. Give it a try. Are you immature for your age and she is more mature for her age??
2007-03-17 18:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 and just broke up with my 38 year old bf. You are taking this more seriously than she is. She is just happy to be out of her parents home and to have someone take care of her and shower her with attention. She is going to break your heart.
2007-03-17 18:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by T!ff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not gonna work, put yourself on this child age level, this is a child, and she is not mature enough to be on your level and you are quite old for her.Where are her parents anyway
2007-03-17 18:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but she has a lot of growing up to do and to experience, that you may have already gone through yourself.
Don't commit to anything just yet.
2007-03-17 18:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by T J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait ur 34? and shes 17? and shes your girlfriend? and you live together? thats disturbing....
2007-03-17 18:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋