should I let myself be known? or should I move on?

Question

During the term my graduate student teacher and I were lightly flirting and we would share jokes about the subject and we were bonding on an educational level- and I sensed that we both knew not to really push the boundaries. I could tell he was single. He is very intelligent, and very imperfect- but I liked his imperfections. I felt I was on the same maturity level as him. I worked really hard in the class- and even though I wasnt the top student I got the most out of my office hours with him. He always cared about if I understood the material and would often come down to the same level as me. He often felt like my peer...When it was the last day of class, he made a gesture, timidly and bashfully to say a last good bye and I did as well. I really miss him already- and he was the first guy who I felt liked really cared and/or appreciated me- even off of just being a student. It still bothers me. Should I try to hunt him down? Or would that be innapropriate? We are both moving later on.

im hesitant because right after the class he is flying around the country for schools to look at. I will be transfering in the fall also. So, moving would be heartbreak if it ended up working out.

Answer 1

I think I would shyly let myself be known...Maybe drop by his office and say you've really missed "the class" and wondered if he would have time for coffee to discuss your future studies. What classes would he take next? What direction would he advise?

Answer 2

I see nothing wrong with perhaps dropping by the faculty office and delivering a note saying how much you enjoyed the course, and how you appreciated the time he took to help you out. Maybe he can recommend some books to read, over coffee perhaps? That would probably start a good, solid friendship, who knows what could be next! Best of luck!

Answer 3

Don't go there.....don't!!