I really like one of my best guy friends, but really don't know what he is thinking about me. He has slow danced with me, and has pulled me close...and yet he says that me 'liking him is gross' ( he said that to one of my friends because he thought I liked him, and I didnt tell him) Then my friend told me and I approached him and was like 'no i dont like you like that' to cover up my true feelings because he has mentioned he would act weird around me if i liked him. But then he is always seeming to flirt with me. He puts his arm around quite a few times saying your my girlfriend but then a few seconds later he says 'just joking' and what not. Its VERY annoying and very confusing...I really like him, but dont know what to do. Also, one of my other friends like him and she keeps interfering my conversation and what not with him, making it even harder to get him to like me.I really am confused about what he thinks about me, what should I do? I really like him, and want him to be my guy..
2007-03-17 18:16:05 · 5 answers · asked by MsMissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Focus on you right now. This guy is sending you mixed signals and its not good for you. Just be his friend and enjoy the time you spend with him just like all your other friends but focus on yourself, on building strong and happy friendships with other people, and on your studies. He clearly appreciates you as a good person and he will continue to respect you as long as you show him and everyone that you respect yourself enough not to let anyone bother you or make you feel badly about yourself. You're not gross at all. Just hang in there and don't worry about this guy. He probably thinks he is the best thing in the world so don't let his head get any bigger than it already is! You're very special, too!
2007-03-17 18:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look like ya have another girl chasing him ya better make a serious move or sit on the shelf a bit longer.
its a big game we play dating looking for the right one .
i jumped in got married at 21 got 2 daughters that r stunners and ones a top model and the other made me a grandad.
also got married agian and have a boy who,s 8 and i,m so proud i,m 46 young now and live in darwin to do what i want ..so bust a move now or do the can,t touch that boy.ok markiss nt
2007-03-17 18:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it could be annoying and confusing when u like a person & things is not working well.
u can always be his friend & if things developed .
but u can tell him what u have heard and that ur always good friends & u care for him & want to hear his opinion ??
hear what he will say then decide for ur self if he did not show respect & caring just remain friends only ......do not let ur attraction confuse u
2007-03-17 19:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He being your bgf he won't mind telling you who he likes ask him and if no answertell him that you have feelings for him and if he can't take the pressure then just say i am willing to stay friends if this is uncomfortable
2007-03-17 18:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him your ta-tas and go from there
2007-03-17 18:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by timmer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋