2007-03-17 18:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love porn. My bf and I watch it all the time. What's so gross about it?!! Not quite sure what yr gf is going on about. You might like to try different kinds of porn, perhaps give her some to watch privately. My favs kind of porn is: lesbian, 3somes, female domination, lesbian domination, older woman younger girl, younger man older woman, *** shots (ultimate fav), gang bangs (lesbians or straight) - also ultimate fav.
Why not buy her a selection of the above and she how she likes them.
Good luck
2007-03-17 21:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your girlfriend if she would think the same way about firemen clandaers staring Brad Pitt, Vin Diesel, Justin Timberlake, Geroge Clouny and whoever else shes thinks is soo fit.
It would be funny if both couples took it in terns to check it out ie after the porn with brad pitt the guy could dress as brad pitt likewise the girl as the pron star.
MAny couples have a load my sister does.
Plus met porn stars whey were nice people
As long as no children, animals, or forced stuff or violence (not I mean proper violence no silly spanking games)
Then fine...
Its just sex abeit long lasting and in positions most couples dont do as want to be more snuggly whilst porn has to be angled for the camera, sound person and the director.
Many are not exploited but well treated and making a good living...
Best see things like Porn Week or porno valley realtity shows behind the scenes on Bravo TV late at night.
They are normal people whos job is to make out and turn on others.
Its just marketed at blokes.
Girls usually prefer vibrators as more touch based then visual or topless pics of rock stars and actors
2007-03-18 06:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman, and I think it's perfectly normal.
You're girlfriend isn't alone, of course- there are lots of women who think porn is gross. It may be because she's a woman, and is less visually oriented and doesn't understand the appeal of it. It may be because the porn she is aware of is made by men and marketed at men, and the aspects of it (rougher sex, misogyny, women who look nothing like her and make her feel bad about herself, etc., etc.) are disgusting to her. It may be because of our attitudes about female sexuality and the idea that women aren't supposed to like porn and it's shameful. It may be because she has no desire for it and feels like you and other men like it because you're horndogs or aren't satisfied with your women, and is thus insecure. Or it just might not turn her on.
Whatever it is, I think it's quite normal. Enjoy it, but don't force her to. Explain why you like it, that it has nothing to do with your relationship or her qualities, and offer a compromise if she wants you to quit it. You can always try introducing her to some porn to see if you can watch and enjoy it together . . . try looking up some softcore erotic films made by women, for women or couples to enjoy.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-21 06:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider how your Vice makes your Girlfriend feel, What if She had Magazines full of Naked Men, How would you feel?
Turn the tables my Boy put yourself in her shoes, what message do you think you are sending out to her, Is she not good enough for you, does She not stimulate you? If She left you to oggle your Porn would you regret the loss and see things in a new light maybe?
2007-03-18 06:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
normal you can learn a lIt from it but some of it is sick its only the same as anyone else doing ot like yourselves but its done in private and not advertised think about it when people have sex or other enjoyment in there own house do they look on that as porn .its because other people are watching or filming what makes it bad but know i think its ok as long as you both agree .
2007-03-18 05:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think porn is fine and women should get the F over it. The reason your man is watching porn is because you don't get him off enough to satisfy him. You are only annoyed because you can see it manifested in a freaky deeky chick on his computer. How dare you make him feel bad for masturbating! Did you expect him to Jag OFF in the bathroom thinking of you and hoping nobody sees him? HOW DARE YOU? Men, wack off and don't let women psycho-manipulate your penis.
2007-03-20 21:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by wtfwhyamitypingthis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it...your girlfriend might be just saying its gross like some women do because there boyfriends/husbands are getting pleasure by watching some other woman/women naked and that. Kinda feeling inadequate in some sense...if you get me. I'm like that sometimes with my boyfriend lol just keep reassuring her x
2007-03-18 06:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be offended if my boyfriend would rather watch porn than be with me. but that just my prerogative
i think i can understand it if the guy is single or if both couples are into it and enjoy it, but it seems that you should stop if your girlfriend finds it so offensive.
why dont you ask her to video you two together and then watch it back
i think porn demeans women
2007-03-18 07:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutly nothing wrong with it!
If there was there wouldnt be such a market for it would there. Try introducing it to her slowly, You can buy really really soft porn made for women from ann summers and see how it goes!
2007-03-18 06:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ok, turns me on! but i dont agree with porn that is violent or just down right weird. dont understand y a lot of gurls have probs with their bf watching it. porn has nothing to do with the relationship your in as long as it is not watched excessively.
2007-03-18 08:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋