I was on grab.com playing a game when this girl but's in on my conversation. I wouldn't have mind much about it if she had something nice to say but she was saying inapropriate things.
So I said " shutup you lil nasty" and she got all mad and started to say other things so I told her to just leave the chat room because no one wants to hear the nasty stuff she has to say. Then this other girl said I was mean because what I said to the inapropriate girl. I said no im not im just truthful and you shouldn't be saying im mean because that's mean to tell me im mean. So am I mean? or am I truthful?
2007-03-17 18:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by cheetahgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not mean.. its not like you know these people.. and just to let you know.. a lot of people like getting on fights online.. i guess they think its fun.
2007-03-17 18:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not mean,you are just dealing with incompetent people in a chat room who can't carry on an intelligent conversation,so they opt for inappropriate things to say to get attention.You probably intimidated both of those girls(because they knew you could carry on an intelligent conversation) and that has nothing to do with being mean or truthful it has to do with how this incident made you feel.(I don't think your mean,I think your right though and that is truthful.
2007-03-18 01:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being truthful, can come out as being mean. But there are many times you have to be truthful, no matter what people think, I think she had no business butting in on your conversation. So yes I feel you did the right thing.
2007-03-26 00:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both I suppose! Obviously she was rude but you followed suit because you felt you were right. You were right until you followed suit by being rude yourself . A difficult lesson (but classy once you learn to exercise it. Particularly if its articulated well) is how to counter rudeness with the truth without being rude yourself. You can tell the truth without being rude. Sometimes its nice to do it in such a way as to make that very person laugh and get along.
2007-03-18 01:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Telling the truth does not have to be unpleasant or hurtful - you could use a little tact. Yes, what you said was truthful. And yes, the way it was said was mean.
2007-03-18 01:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not mean. The first girl was mean. As for the second girl, she just didn't know what really went on. She didn't know that it bugged you about the inappropriate content the other girl was saying. So tell her what really happened. YOU ARE NOT THE BAD GIRL IN THIS CASE, SISTAH!
2007-03-18 01:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anniechalada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In dealing with people in an open forum, we must temper the truth with understanding.
Yes, you were being truthful, but you need to soften the truth in a gentle way.
2007-03-18 01:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you are asking this question, i have to say truthful. because an ignorant person wouldn't as something like this. Relax!
2007-03-18 01:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know how old ya r but i guess yr about 16 ..
move on no help here just bad eggs ok
2007-03-18 01:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are stooping down to her level by calling names and saying mean things. you could of done it in a nicer way possibly.
2007-03-18 01:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by S666666666666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋