ok...i like this guy and he is kinda short and his name is matt he is in the high school band and he is really nice we sometimes talk he looks at me after band see im in choir and the band and choir rooms are right next door to each other and he always comes in after they are done to talk to his friends who are in choir...but anyway back to the question...i like him alot...just the thing is that i dont know if he likes me or not and i dont want any of my friends to ask him if he likes me or anything but how do i get him to really notice me? we sometimes talk but very rarely though so what do i do to get him to like me back?? please help me on this question!!!
2007-03-17 18:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by bored 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i am VERY hy when it comes to guys i like!!
2007-03-17 18:10:00 · update #1
Smile, say hello a bit more frequently. Ask him ab out the instrument he plays, why he chose it, why he likes it, what's easier/difficult. You know? Try to show interest and get him talking.
The more you ask him and of course be cool you know, be yourself, always with a smile. Look him in the ye, thank him for his knowledge, maybe even tell him you think he's very dedicated in his playing. Maybe he'll warm up and you two an become friends. He could mellow out, be more comfortable, and then hopefully the sparks Will fly!
The point it, warm up, smile, show interest, and let things run their course, best of luck!!!
2007-03-17 18:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi girlfriend,
listen talking from experience a girl can get any man she wants if she knows how to play it right even if he is attached to someone. First, don't show him how much you love him instead show him how fun you are to hang out with, so be funny, considerate, smart and cute.Smile all the time, smiling is the secret of friendship, it will make him feel comfortable when he is around you. Compliment him on his music from time to time(monthly). If you tie your hair in a ponytail, loose it, let your hair down(guys like that). Try to show him that you need his help, guys love it when you ask for help. Last but not least, be yourself because no guy is worth changing yourself for.
This might take a month but within 3 months you'll have him all over you.
Good Luck
PS let me know what happens.
2007-03-18 01:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
high heels, short skirt, and a low cut shirt outta do the trick.
sorry based on this I can't really help you. You need more confidence, perhaps a better body image. Look at my answer a few posts ago where a kid asks how to attract with his body language and voice or whatever and follow that advice for confidence.
2007-03-18 01:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Interested 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should give eye contacts whenever he passes by during passing period and guys like it when a girl is not too shy and can have a good conversation. i feel the same way cuz i like a guy name matt but he much taller like 5'11 or something like that and i think that he like me back cuz i always give eye contact to show him that i like him back and if he gives an eye contact back to u then that mean that he likes u back cuz there is no way he will be looking at u back unless he didnt like u back
email me back if my plan works okay blue7blossom@yahoo.com what school do u go to?
2007-03-18 01:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by blue7blossom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself , try and be a friend to him. If something bad happens maybe he'll lean on you. Don't show up urself too much or he'll get turned off. Maybe ask him about things he likes and what he dislikes and maybe you could get closer to him.
GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-03-18 01:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him a little more. be casual dont seem eager and dont stutter or he will suspect dat u like him. just talk like you usually talk to your other friends. whenever he look ,smile.make eye contact. when you pass by him say hi but dont sound flirtish say it shyly(dont know whether its a word,but you know what i mean). bum into him at times especially if you're carrying books. see whether he picks it up for you.you are what you are so you dont haf to wear somethin sexy or use heavy make up or anythin. be natural. good luck gurl;D (no offence to de other ppl who answered earlier)
2007-03-18 01:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by fifa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be kind to people in wheel chairs when others ignore then show him your smart, and don,t be bossy, and smile that,s how my wife got my attention she not nock out but she has a heart, that,s more better then good looks.wear a skirt.
2007-03-18 01:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dress in a sexy outfit to get his attention and go from there..
2007-03-18 01:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off...if you don't walk to this bloke...he probably doesn't like you....talk to him first and see how things go...
2007-03-18 01:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk 2 him more often get his number call him and tell him how freaky you are......lol.....or spend more time with him
2007-03-18 01:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋