There is a new girl at my school, and i like her. She is really nice and would like to be friends. How do I ask her to take it a step further? Not to sex, but a true relatonship. I am not one of tose people that is in it for the "baseball". The farthest either one of us might ever get would be first base, after a while. How do I ask her?
2007-03-17 18:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to ask her out. Not to make out.
2007-03-17 18:02:00 · update #1
Why would you want a relationship if you only want friendship? As my cousin the grocer would say, "If you're not trying to get her to make you brownies, then you probably shouldn't be taking her to the grocery store."
2007-03-17 18:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say first develop a friendship. Take your time and enjoy each other's company by seeking eachother out casually. If you want a relationship to be sound and enjoyable, you need to be friends who understand eachother first. So, after you feel that she values you as a friend, you can ask her to hang out with you and your friends, or invite her to something else that you would usually do by yourself, like playing a game or participating in an activity. If you feel better just skipping the "hanging out" part and going straight to a "date," then one day after you're friends casually ask her to go on a date with you. From there you can take your time to get to know her and start talking and seeing eachother more. Once you know her well enough that you are sure you want her to be your girlfriend, ask! Good luck!
2007-03-17 18:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by dancer87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her and kinda become friends with her before u ask her out. let her know that u will always be there for her and that u really like her. good luck
2007-03-17 18:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...ask her out? That would be a good place to start.
2007-03-17 18:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by GrnEyedGurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for her phone number? If it goes well, then ask her to be your girlfriend.
2007-03-17 18:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. gyah lee would it be any worse than never knowing if she liked you back
2007-03-17 18:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by 4evrpunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋