Ok so my ex is in town from college?

Question

Ok so my ex who I havent seen since the breakup 3 months ago is in town. Last week I talked to her and she told me that we could see eachother one day this upcoming week. SInce then we kinda had a falling out (arugement) I havent really spoken to her since Thursday. Her bestfriend calls me today and I missed the call. When I returned his call he said hey how are you. He asked me what was I doing tonight. I told him I didnt know. He went on to tell me that my ex was intown. I said "thats good" he repeated me. Then he says oh speaking of her shes calling now I will call you back. Do you think she told him to call me and tell me that she was intown or do you think he was just telling me. Now mind you I dont talk to this guy at all. I just know he's bestfriends with my ex..

Her best friend is a gay male

Answer 1

Since he's HER friend; I definitely believe she set him up to call you. What other reason would he have? She's playing cat and mouse games with you. Let her continue the chase; but you decide whether or not you want to be caught.

Answer 2

So...this is an ex we are talking about. Why do you care if she is in town? If there are still feelings you need to work out be a man and call her. You are the only one that can make that decision. If you want to talk to her go for it otherwise forget it and don't go through anyone else to contact her. Do it yourself if you want results.

Answer 3

dude, she sounds like trash.

skip that ex and move on in life, find a nice, new girl and be happy. you broke up for a reason. let it go, let that idiot date/bang whoever. btw... im 34. guys are not "best friends" with girls.

keep the white trash out of your life and just live, man.

shes not worth the effort, anxiety or drama.

like i said, move on. ive been around the block.

skip that b-tch, put on some matrix or empire strikes back in your dvd, make some popcorn, grab a beer and just be happy to be alive.

Answer 4

run you have better thingd to do