well, my guy friend and i know we like each other. So one day he asked me if i'm ready for a relationship yet....and i told him i was, but i'm afraid that he might be moving; so the relationship won't really work out. But i really like him...he might be moving in a few more months. Should i start a relationship with him? He said he would like to have a relationship with me. Thanks
2007-03-17 17:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Alinn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are about taking chances. I would go for it. Plus, with the technology available today, it is much easier to have good, lasting long distance relationships (in case he does move).
2007-03-17 17:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. You didn't mention kids or anything that would stop you from moving with him if it works out. You did mention that he MIGHT be moving which means he also might not. I have a feeling that you are right for each other. That one right person is worth the risk. And If he's not, you'll probably know it before the move. He probably has the same concerns, and thinks you're worth the risk, so give him the chance. Otherwise you could look up in 20 years and ask yourself what you passed up.
2007-03-18 01:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I had a long distance relationship for 5 years before we got married and moved in together. Don't let distance hinder a good relationship. If anything, it helped us develop a relationship that wasn't based predominantly on the physical aspects.
2007-03-18 00:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look when i was 16 the same happened to me i went to the city and she was in the country..
anyhow as i got set up in a flat i went back and she moved in a yr latter ..keep the friendship going ya never know or if she meets some one else just move on .
lifes hard enough worring about girls .as i,ve married two and three kids latter .i,m on me own and enyoying myself
love my kids at im 46 now .hope this helps abit markiss n.t
2007-03-18 00:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by the gate keeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable enough, then go for it.
I'm the sort of person who tries take every opportunity that is presented, thats how my relationship this time lasted more than a year, a slight impulse thing but it paid off.
But up to you :)
2007-03-18 00:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you didn,t know he was movie a way so say long distance don,t work if he wasn,t moveing then yes it could work but because he,s moving you feel it,s not go i should know i had long distance relationships and they don,t last maybe a few years but not for live. to much heart break.
2007-03-18 00:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very simple, there is common interest and why would you want to pass something like that up. Who knows what will happen in a few months, follow your heart.
2007-03-18 00:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be moving? sounds like he may be stringing you along to me. People have a tendancy to want what they know they cant have and this may be what he's doing to you. So I would take it slow and the answer will come to you in time.
2007-03-18 00:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by starsearcher36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't get in a reationship. It might end up ruining your friendship when he moves away. It'll save you the heart ache.
2007-03-18 00:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try it. It might work out if you have the right feelings. Good Luck!
2007-03-18 00:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋