Should I say this to her? I'm still trying to get it right before I just give up?

Question

Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I

had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you. If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END)

This one below I didn't write it was shortened for me. I just don't feel right saying or giving her something I didn't write. I have a new fear now that I'll forget what I want to tell her, or that the words won't come out if it seems like she's not listening or listening to hard.


Hey. How are you? You know, ever since we stopped talking, I realized how much I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've really grown and worked on things to improve my life. I'll understand if you still think you made the best decision by breaking up with me, but I know that a special girl like you is hard to find. I'm grateful that you know me better than anyone else. I know that we had our ups and downs, and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I think there is a lot that we can learn about one another. I will respect whatever decision you make. Take care. (END of 3rd letter)

That's supposed to say end of 2nd letter. My mis-type. Her 17th b-days in two weeks. I'm 17 as well. I've liked her since I was 15 and she was 15, when we met, and 4 months into the year 2006 we talked but after that I did something by mistake, she got mad at me, and I gave her space. When I tried to talk to her she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I've tried to move on but I feel like I need her friendship back.

Which one should I use?

Could I have given her too much space (a month and a half), to where she'd think I must not care since I didn't try my hardest to get her back, and that's why she said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. By the way, when I talked to her online after that about it, she always responded when I said something. Should I post the conversation so I can get some interpretations of it?

Answer 1

You might want to start off with a small letter and see how she responds. If the response is effective, then you may endeavor to create more comprehensive writings.

Humans tend not to read huge letters unless they feel that it is beneficial or there is some significance to it. Baby Steps; the cliche still holds true.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Aw *Tears* Hey I Fell For it so why wouldn't she, she must be one Amazing girl, go for it!!! I like the first one but the third one is also fine as long as it is from the heart!!

Answer 3

Oh my gosh that is beautiful! tell her....shell love you