Well, you see...I'm really, really, really, shy. It's not easy for me to make the first move. But since I am shy, no one wants to ask me out. Now I know I have to start being agressive, but I just wanted to know what men like. I don't want to be too pushy. Thank you!
2007-03-17 17:04:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice:
don't date until you are 40
by then you will know better
2007-03-17 17:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have an answer because I am the same way, but I'm curious to see what guys will say to this question. One of my friends that is a guy said that he really likes shy women. Some men find it cute. If a guy smiles at you smile back. Don't get all nervous like I do and turn around really fast. Start buy smiling at a guy if you are interested in him. That is pretty easy.
2007-03-17 17:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get aggressive! Agressiveness doesnt get boys. Shyness isn't always that bad either. I think you could have what it takes to tella boy you like them if you just trust yourself and know you like the guy you're going to say it too. Just don't become aggresive, because aggresiveness doesnt get guys, it would repel them. Shy ness is like a neutral, it can be good or bad. Just try and become more outgoing, not aggressive. If you want to kno what a guy likes, they like the truth, and they like dedication, They want to know how you feel about them and that you will never leave them for somebody else. Be patient, I'm sure you'll find the right guy. Good luck!
2007-03-17 17:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's never easy to make the first move, a lot of guys are also to shy to be themselves, so you'll find these guys need to be very drunk or act like fool to talk to a girl.
You only need to be yourself, just relax and it will happen, sure you might a fail a few times, but it's bound to happen anyway. It's the times when suceed that make it worth it.
2007-03-17 17:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by normality_ends_here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was absolutely crazy about this guy, Joey. EVERY girl liked him... seriously. He was cute, athletic, funny, smart... just a nice guy, but I was very shy. I let him know that I liked him in subtle ways, not by being overwhelming.
Now we're married. I asked him what made him choose me over the other girls, and he said what initially attracted him to me was that I was shy, and he loved it when girls were cute and shy.
Moral of the story: Don't compromise who you are. Don't lock it all up inside, let him know that you like him in subtle ways, just be you.
2007-03-17 17:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me I like a women to be her self if shy you know well worm up to eachother and not push anything to fast just take it easy and go with the flow dont rush
2007-03-17 17:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Black Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being too pushy.....go for it! Guys go for that. It turns us on. (Most of us anyways) Just lay off if your first move doesn't go so well. After that, your being too pushy.
2007-03-17 17:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by timmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i like a woman who is not too assertive, but confident of herself, if you re too forward you may come off as being "too available" and wind up as a target for any near sleazeball. continue being yourself, the right guy will notice and you will know when he does. good luck :)
2007-03-17 17:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Harry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Use a little charm. Smile warmly. Be witty and smart. Be warm and sexy.
But most of all, be safe.
Otherwise, once you've gotten over your shyness, you'll have to hold yourself back!
2007-03-17 17:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for a guy that you know that you like. don't give up. and when u find them, if u like them, i mean really like them, go ask them out, if they've stuck around long enough for u to do that, they probably like u back. from there on, everything will just flow, when u want to kiss him, kiss him, dont wait just do
2007-03-17 17:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by drummerboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, don't think men like aggressive women.. i would say you can stay shy - just don't forget to smile and the men will come knocking..
2007-03-17 17:09:15 · answer #11 · answered by gorg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋