Okay so me and my boyfriend are going on one month and I Love him. For eample today(St.Patrick's Day) we hung out and we had a Ticking war lol it was soo much fun and we were talking and he looks at me this way and i get this feeling....god i can't even explain it. I know I'm ready for sex but i'm scarced of pushing it with him. Like I have said before I am a virgin and he TOTALLY knows it and respects it but i think i'm ready to "Give" myself to him. I tell him he is the BEST thing that has happened to me and he says that he has never had so much fun with someone and I know your probally saying you guys have only dated a month but we have known each other for a good year and became friends and then started dating. Anyways back to what I was saying I think i'm ready but How do I know he wants to have sex with me? When I told him that he was really special to me and I was thinking about me giving myself to him he told me that he would be HONORED to be so lucky. He told me that....
2007-03-17 16:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by NavyBaby09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was VERY special to him and that he knows i'm special to him so it wouldn't just be having sex it would be making love and I totally believe him. But how do I know if he wants to have sex with me so early into the relationship?? And whn he tells me all this he doesn't look around he looks me straight in the eye and thats how I know he isn't lying. What should I do? Am I talking Crazy?
2007-03-17 16:44:16 · update #1
only you will know if you are ready, so i can't tell you what to do, or how to know if he wants to or whatnot, but i know that sometimes sex too early in a relationship can ruin things (sometimes it doesn't) but it can. i mean, not to burst the whole butterflies in your stomach feeling, but...how well do you actually know him? are you okay with knowing that he is the only person that will have that piece of you? have you discussed the possible consequences? You need to be able to openly talk to him about all of this...and be able to ask him how he feels about sex in general and with you. if you can't be open enough to ask him....don't do it!!!
2007-03-17 16:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should be a very special thing. i lost my virginity at fourteen. BIG MISTAKE. i don't know how old you are but anyway, you can't just think you love the guy after a month. theres not a person in the world that can know everything abou somebody in a month. the whole "looking you in the eyes" thing might mean something but most likely doesn't. to get sex a guy will do anything to make you beleive your something special to him. i don't know how your relationship is exactly but BOTTOM LINE. I would wait on it for a while. (several months or even a year) just depends
2007-03-18 00:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to have a baby? Birth control doesn't always work, so, you should not have sex until you're ready or able to become a parent. I know, I'll get hammered for saying this, but there are too many unwanted kids already, and too many people with crotch diseases, too. Don't fall for the "honored" thing. Wait until you can be a parent before you start doing what it takes to become one.
2007-03-17 23:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by rick h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about the wanting to have sex part. all guys want to have sex with our girlfriends or people we like. its in our nature. (not sure about gay guys). point is, you wont be pushing him.
as far as actually making it happen, sleep over w/o parents. find an empty house. you should know the basics. but the most important of them all is SAFE SEX. make it almost completely obvious to him the night/day/days before youre gonna do it, so he has time to make that all important trip to 7-11.
if you wanna make it great, read up on tips online. and shave those hairy spots
once again no doubt hes ready its in the y chromosome
2007-03-17 23:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by PBaddict 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! i was with a guy 4 one month and thought maybe i was ready and he dumped me! dont have sex with him after one month! are u an idiot! love is not a maybe thing. u know when u love someone. and when i have sex with a guy for the 1st time i will have to be with him for a long time so i can trust him and i know that hes not in it to hit it and quit it! if u do it your stupid! wait till after 7 months. or wait till your married!
2007-03-17 23:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have a great guy on your hands but make sure you're true to yourself. make sure it's what you really want because once you do it, you can't take it back. sex really changes you as a couple, it adds more things into the picture, so you need to make sure that you two are a strong couple. consider that it's only been a month & ask him what he thinks about it. if you do do it, make sure you're safe.
- nicolle
2007-03-17 23:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by nicollex0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kkWell you need to rub up on him in a very hot and sexual way and get your hands to work on him in all of the right places. If he doesn't get the message then come see me
2007-03-17 23:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start initiated it and he will probably not rfuse
2007-03-17 23:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Psycho Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋