no confidence?

Question

i need confidence boost.
i dont belive in myself AT ALL.
i wish i was prettier and skinny
someone help me.. with this;
id greatly appreciate it
=)

Answer 1

I fight with self-confidence all the time. The best thing you can do for yourself to to make others feel comfortable being around you. When you are around someone ask them questions that they can answer, be a good listener. After a time, you'll start to feel more at ease being around people. Try to go and eat alone at a place that is not so crowded. Go to a movie alone. Learn to love you. Work on positive thoughts. Try not to dwell on negative thoughts. When they pop in you head, think about something that makes you happy. You have control over most of your thoughts -how you feel and act toward your surroundings. Everybody has something that they wish they could change about theirselves. You need to except the way God created you and work on the things that you can improve. A beautiful fun sense of humor can make anyone more attractive and fun to be around. Learn to love yourself as God already does. He created you to have a special place in life to make a difference.

Answer 2

I mean there are times that I wish I was thicker, cause I feel wayy too skinny, whenevery one else thinks my weight is great. In school I feel down. Cause everyone is thicker and gets all the cute boys. Just think of it this wayyy. People that hate on you wanna be you. Like u wanna be skinnier and I wanna be thicker. No one knows what itz like to b the other kind unless u are the other. Just dont listen to what people think of you. Think of the goodness about you, instead of the negativity. Focus on the Good things from now on.

Answer 3

umm well if u wish u were skinnier, then go on a deit! (but dont get too skinny!) and what ever you dont belive you cant do just start believing you can do it, cause you can do anything you put your mind to! and im sure ur really pretty, everyone is beautiful in their own way, maby try new hair styles, buy some cute outfits! good luck!

Answer 4

I agree with Noel you are the only person who can boost your own ego. You can be physically fit and beautiful on the out side but it's really how you feel inside that will matter to you.

Answer 5

You are the only one who can really boost your own confidence. People can compliment you and go on and on about how great you are, but if you don't believe it, it won't do any good.

Answer 6

nobodys happy with themselfs i wish i had more friends and i was skinny but ill i can do is try and talk with my parents and i noe parents are supposed to reasure you but it helps some. try putting yourself in someone elsees shoes how do they feel about themselfs?

Answer 7

You are a total babe. Go get em..

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