Hello,
I am kind of confused, you see, I am attracted to a girl at my school, and she is my age and everything. The problem is, its the last quarter of school, and I am only a freshman; however, when the quarter is I will be transferring schools. I find this girl attractive but am unsure if I should pursue her or wait to have a relationship until I transfer schools, and start fresh.
Please give me advice on what to do. Help is greatly appreciated!!! Thanks!!!!
p.s: The new quarter JUST started, last Thursday actually, and contains 9 weeks. I don't want to start a relationship with her if I feel I wont be able to maintain it at a different school, in another county. But I am concerned as to whether or not I should try it or wait.
2007-03-17 16:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by amicusnole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ne honest with her, and enjoy the time you have together, just make sure you guys hang out a lot before you go, so you can stay friends after words, incase you ever happened to come back to town
2007-03-17 16:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be best for you to wait until you transfer before you try to start a relationship, only because you are so young. If you were a junior or senior it would be different because you could drive to see her. You should try to get to know her as a friend that way when you do move you can have some way to contact her whether it be by phone or by mail. .
2007-03-17 23:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend bracing the opportunity you have in front of you. If she is who you want, go for it. If it is meant to me, it will work no matter where you go to school.
Ok but now that I have given you what you want to hear (and what i try to believe)....the god's honest truth is when you get to this new school you will meet other girls, assuming your not transferring to an all boys school. Now I know you don't believe this now, but you'll forget about this girl after about a week.
I think the hard part will be the 9 weeks you have left to be around her.
The choice is really yours to make. I would never advise to let something slip away....cause then you may regret it.
Food for thought anyways
good luck!
-Kristina
2007-03-17 23:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by ina 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. And if she turns you down then no big deal because you have your new school to find a date at and won't have to be embarrassed around her once you transfer
2007-03-17 23:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Noel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would start fresh, your going to be the new guy and girls are going to be interested in you at the new school, so don't break this girls heart and just wait.
2007-03-17 23:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know whether she's even interested in you unless you try to get to know her. tomorrow's another day...you could be hit by a bus. peace
2007-03-17 23:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋