What traits do you look for in a prospective date or mate? What qualities do you value?

Question

If you had to list the top ten (10) things (or more) that you were looking for, what would they be?

Answer 1

Wow, that's a hard one but I'll try to summarize:

#1 - Honesty. If there's no trust, then there's nothing.
#2 - Mutual respect.
#3 - Flexibility, it can't be "My way or the highway" with him.
#4 - Sense of humor.
#5 - Brains (not necessarily MENSA material but smart)
#6 - Responsible, means what he says, no false promises
#7 - Good hygiene
#8 - Not overly judgmental, appreciates diversity
#9 - Likes to touch and be touched, affectionate
#10 - Loyal

Answer 2

Must be a Christian, have a good personality, be honest & trustworthy, someone I can actually talk to/with, nice sense of humor, care about others, is confident in spite of any shortcomings he may have, loves life, is true to himself & his beliefs, really cares about me & my feelings about any/everything, respects me & my opinions, be self reliant (not a bum), nice looking would be a plus but not a neccessity.

Answer 3

Trust, honesty, respect, compatibility, communication, sense of humor, proper hygiene, chemistry/attraction, reliable, doesn't use drugs or smoke or abuse alcohol, patient, unselfish, has ambition, genuine, not abusive in any way.